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Thank you all so much! I appreciate all the perspectives. I will move forward and focus my efforts on stronger communication, rather than worry and doubt.

He and I (heh, his nickname is Pixy, actually) have been together 5 months. We have connected on so many levels. He was in the process of coming out of a 14-year marriage. Divorce papers were signed before we even met. His ex-wife and I have met. We are fine with each other. He admitted he had...

We became primaries because we wanted it that way. We want to commit to one another. We've discussed marriage at some point in the future, but he is still unsure about that, and neither of us are in an ideal financial spot to make it happen anyway. We connect so well. We work together...

Hrm... She is an ex from his high-school days. I could have some foolish bias against prior relationships. But whatever the issue, I agree I need to reevaluate my stance, and continue our communication on this topic. I am nervous about doing this. We have talked briefly about what he would do...

Well, my partner and I aren't married. We're still figuring out the foundations of our relationship. So I don't really have that added sense of security. But I don't believe I should should base my security on something like that. The more I think about this, the more I'm thinking the reason I...

I have had experiences in prior relationships where I felt something for others and my partner didn't like it. I respected that, because I wanted my partner to be as happy for me as I was with the person, not someone they had to force themselves to be ok with. But I don't think that would be a...

Well, that's sort of my issue. I do think it's unfair of me. But at the same time, it isn't fair to them if I don't know if I can handle it and they do become more invested. I want to be in a spot where I am more secure in our relationship, before branching out into new ones, when we don't even...

Hi everyone, I'm having trouble letting go of jealous feelings. My partner and I are poly primaries. Our relationship hasn't had much time to really have a solid foundation though. We don't have answers for our relationship, yet he wants to open another one with a woman I'm uncomfortable with...