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    Healthy Boundaries: A Meta Update

    Hello! Some of you may remember my Meta-issues with Red not really being good with boundaries and having a lot of insecurities outbursts that resulted in me asking for no more visits in our (mine and Farmer's) home. I am finally feeling as if things are progressing well, with a few caveats...
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    Creating healthy boundaries and distance after the fact

    Farmer: My anchor partner of 10+ years; engaged and planning a life together that will soon include marriage and kids. The hinge of our V. Red: Meta, with partner since July; LDR. Deeply monogamous at heart with anxiety issues. Initially when this started, Red was already head over heels for...
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    Update post

    Farmer: Partner of 10+ years, living together, engaged. Red: Meta, dating Farmer for about 2 months. Sorry for length. I have been doing my best to take my space while remaining friendly with Red. I feel like I had a pretty good balance, but Red was often asking me if we were 'okay', which I...
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    Metamour relationships

    Tell me your metamour stories, struggles, successes! What kind of meta relationships do you prefer, BFFs or just on casual acquaintance terms? Have you ever had a meta cross the line/boundary with you in some way, how did you handle it? Have you ever had a meta that you just didn't like or get...
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    Officially a V, causing worries

    So I've been struggling with my partner W dating a pretty monogamous person, M, who also wants to date me, which I said I would try a few weeks ago and see if any feelings develop. She has been talking to him more over the past week about her worries than me, which was good at taking the...
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    Being a go-between

    So I've heard a lot about Pivots being a go-between between metas a lot, but has anyone ever been a meta in that position? We are in a closed V, at my meta's request (she is usually monogamous), about a month or so in. Pivot and I have been together over a decade and are nesting partners. Me...
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    Reassuring new partner who is usually mono

    Hey all! First time poster. I've been with my partner for over 11 years. We've always had an open relationship (my idea) in a lot of ways, I knew my partner wasn't really a monogamous person. I ID as asexual and, at the time, didn't know if I'd ever be interested in sex. It took a lot of...
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