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Yea thats the only positive that came from interactions with M. I love that A and myself can have real conversations with each other than hold it in and figure the other person is not interested in your life. It's not just me, it is us. I just want the little guy to stay little. They grow...

You never realize how much a child can change your life, until you have one. Everything is amazing with A, myself, and the little one. M now wants to be friends. Thats all. I don't need the friendship or anything else from that, though we do talk at work and leave it at that. Had to let her...

Thanks kdt26417, you have been a major part of the solution to this. With the lost of M, I have alienated myself at work, but in process of ending that employment anyway. So thats whatever. Finding nearby friends is a new issue. Lmao. How do you go about finding sane responsible adults? SMH...

Told M we are done as friends and the infatuation is over. It felt great to tell her to her face and it is awesome not to be told more lies. M and her kids had to move back in with her parents due to seperating from her abusive husband, but while there she neglects her priorities to party...

Thats pretty amazing Sandy2u. Congrats on your relationship. Yea I can't wait until 6 months. I feel like he is really fragile to me. Sometimes scary to pick him up.

Sorry for lack of posting, just enjoying our new little addition to the family. Other things with the other (M) have calmed down. Though there are texts from her after ignoring her for a few days. Been looking into getting navk into school and quitting, we are hoping soon.

Hey seakinganswers This is W..lol Everything with M is not an issue anymore. Due to her lukewarm attitude and constant skipping has really caused me to see her differently light. I still care for her, but the rest is gone. I'll let A say her side after feeding the little one. Thanks for...

Yea M would need to open up, but I don't see that ever happening. I barely see her as a friend now. On another note. At 1205 pm 02-09-2014, A and myself welcomed our son into the world. This is the most magical moment of our lives. Will keep everyone updated

Thanks so much for your help. You have been a big help with all this. And have helped me with the right questions to ask myself. A and myself both agree it wouldnt be so bad if it was someone who appreciated and deserved the feelings and attention. It has brought us together a lot closer, so I...

A is very supportive an optimistic. She wants me to be happy and I want her happiness. Like all things, its complicated and I strive to make her happy at the cost of what I want. In the end M will probably not stick around as friend close friend or what have you, A will always be there. The...

Its very touch and go with M. In some ways I feel she does. When its about her feelings she clams up, and says she is shy. I dont trust her in what she says. Its like a dog chasing its own tail. I m doing what I can to move forward without this friendship or whatever. A has began accepting my...

You know that is a good point. We habe been constantly saying her actions are garbage. I have friends, granted none that I want to have a relationship wiyh...cue comedic snare and cymbal. I have proven to be that and more to her, and all I get are empty promises. To quote a little from our last...

Things are like anything crazy event in semi normal people's lives. Lol. A is always my biggest fan and supporter and I keep her update on all conversation with M. Which helps alot. A has reached out to M, they are now Facebook friends. I didnt expect it the two talk so quickly. As of late M...

Extremely interesting turn of events. Cant wait to update on all this. Really surprised its going. Still will work on my feelings, as for now I m just ready for baby to be here. Kisses love you always.

Everything at first was a bit complicated. Now its where it should be. Cleared headed from the confused ass I was. The feelings are there, every off chance she'll message me and drop snippets of feelings. A reads and is informed about all conversations between me and M. I can honestly say this...

Thanks for the response and advice on the matter. I am 100% involved in my wife and soon to be here son. The M situation has changed. 2 wks of being back on shift with her has shown me in my absence how far she has fallen. The once mature fun person I enjoyed is replaced by a person trying to...

Babe I m glad you shared you view on the matter. It is quite a conundrum. I hope the more communicate the more we can work everything out. Kisses.

Good luck on your journey. My wife and I found this forum and it has helped her in gaining knowledge of poly relationships. For her its hard to understand since she is completely monogamous. Again good luck. :)

Thanks so much for the advice, and commenting. A has been a rock for me and extremely supportive. All to my surprise actually. Again thank you so much for the advice.

I read your post and in some ways reminded me of my situation. Its reversed and no baby involved yet. My wife and I are expecting a baby soon. I without trying formed a emotional connection with a coworker. Now its beyond complicated and the coworker drops snippets of feelings and her thoughts...