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You are very correct! It's taking that first step with him (or both of them actually ) that's so hard. I desperately want to sit and talk about these feelings but I also don't want to crush their own perspective on things. I feel like I'm being super needy right now but also feel my neediness...

He has a lot of past emotional abuse. From family and ex girlfriends. We've tried working on those feelings but over the course of our 4 years together have only made very little progress.

I have expressed some of these things to him, mostly the NRE and the stress of it when the baby gets here. And honestly he is trying harder this time around, unlike the last Nre he went through with a previous relationship. We've learned for our mistakes in the past but it's still the little...

I really hope they are reliable. Both have shown signs throughout this pregnancy that they are not but I was hoping it was just my nerves. And with husband going through intense NRE and the baby coming in 2 months I worry so much that I won't get the support during and after the birth (the...

No I don't keep tally on sex between either of them lol but it has dwindled a bit between me and bf too which is a bummer. I went from being satisfied to miserable in a snap of the finger and it sucks. I'm a very sexual person. And as awful as it may sound, sex makes me feel beautiful and the...

And no, I don't read messages no matter how bad I want to. I've learned in the past that that only leads to betrayal and more hurt feelings.

He says the pregnancy has very little to do with it but I sense it's more than just that little bit and that entails him lying to me about it which also hurts. But like I said, these hormones have me very emotional.

I have usually been able to handle jealousy fairly well and kick it back before it gets too serious but I am having the most awful time this go round. All of my usual tactics don't seem to help or only temporarily. I'm in a V between my husband and bf. My husband has sense branched out and now...