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    If we're polyamorous, how can I be a distraction from him dating other women?

    We did have a long conversation about it. I think maybe he just doesn't love me anymore, doesn't want to see me and is using that as an excuse. He kept saying "for now" and that he would love to see me again when he has a partner, which confused me. Why in the future, but not now? I think...
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    If we're polyamorous, how can I be a distraction from him dating other women?

    Thanks. That makes sense. When he ended things he said he wanted to pursue things sexually with some other women (he already has another girlfriend, in addition to me). I didn't understand why he would need to end things with me in order to do that? Polyamory gives us the freedom to choose and...
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    If we're polyamorous, how can I be a distraction from him dating other women?

    Hmm...maybe. I thought the whole purpose of polyamory was to have many loves. He's dating other people, not just me. Why can't he still date me too while he searches? I don't feel like I pressured him or overwhelmed him. I let him lead the relationship at the pace he was comfortable...
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    If we're polyamorous, how can I be a distraction from him dating other women?

    Long story short, I was dating someone with whom there was an understanding we wouldn't be nesting/life partners. However, we still loved each other and wanted to continue to be together while we both dated other people. He told me today that he doesn't want to date me anymore and just wants to...
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