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Great point!

Singing. I've told Jack it's foreplay to me. When he sings to me, I immediately want to rip his pants off. Makes singing in the car all the more interesting! :p

I'll add that transgender is an umbrella term for all kinds of people. Gender-queer people, transmen, transwomen, agender individuals (people who don't identify as any gender), gender non-confirming people, gender non-binary people, to name a few. People who are trans* may or may not want to...

Roger and Jack were friends before Jack and I started seeing each other. It makes things easier when Jack comes over or the three of us spend time together. Taylor and I are on friendly terms. We occasionally talk, but don't see each other often. This works well. The four of us have hung out a...

I can't support this enough. I think that perspective COULD be similar to the color-blinded view of race, including that "everyone's human" and "I don't see race." By saying that, you're minimizing the experiences of people who aren't in positions of power, as well as taking away their power to...

Roger and I have been fluid bonded for ages, since we were monogamous for so long before opening up. I've been on the pill for about a decade, so no concerns about pregnancy. Jack and I fluid bonded right away. We had been friends for years, so even though we started off as FWB, there was a...

Awwwwww! Your last post was so joyful - hard not to smile after reading that! :)

Slightly tangential - anyone ever hear of the Gender Unicorn? It's a new take on the Genderbread Person. Helps people think about the differences between gender identity, gender expression, sex assigned at birth, sexual attraction, and romantic attraction. I like the inclusion of gender as a...

Glad to hear that it's slowly leaching out. Sounds like you're going about things in the healthiest way possible. :)

I'm married, but I don't have any children. So it might be a bit different than your situation. My partners are friends, which makes things easier. I switch off weekends in which I stay with Jack at his house and then he comes to my house. We normally sleep in a guest room at my place, but have...

Interesting thread! Nice to hear everyone's stories. I met Roger through a windy road of a friend of a friend of a friend's sister at a party when I was in middle school (yup, wrote a diary entry about it and everything :rolleyes:). We became friends for several months before he asked me out...

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I had been friends with Jack for many years before we were friends with benefits and now partners. We also flirted a lot as friends. When I brought up the idea of us being FWB, I texted him (we were/are long distance). Pretty much: "Hey, I want to see you again soon. Should I bring a 24 pack of...

Life has been such a rollercoaster lately. Long-standing relationship problems with Roger have been bubbling to the top. Major loss in Jack's life. Been trying to split my emotional energy between the two, while managing a job where I work too many hours, making time for my best friend, Indigo...

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