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  1. New2This3

    The Musings of a Newbie

    Career goals on the horizon I may have touched briefly on this on the other thread but I'm gonna mention it again. So I've been at my current job for over 10yrs. I have two years left of schooling before obtaining my BA in the same field. After taking time off to focus on have little mini...
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    The Musings of a Newbie

    Hello all! I am New2This3....I've fairly new to this community/site and have written about most of what's going on in my life right now in a different thread (you can find that here for some background: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=75721) ..I figured I'd start a blog in this...
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    Reassuring new partner who is usually mono

    Kinda in the same boat Just posting to follow... I'm also new to poly and am kind of in the same situation.....
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    Triad goal - stuck in limbo (very long)

    a few random thoughts from today Opportunities are presenting itself in our lives and big changes are on the horizon..... 1) K is moving into her own apartment (separating from her husband) on Oct. 1st. 2) S has been unemployed, but recently has a strong possibility that he will have a new...
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    Triad goal - stuck in limbo (very long)

    Thanks for sharing. This helps me realize that I should and need to get rid of the expectation right away before it messes with my emotions even more. In a way, this is what we all share now anyhow, K and S have "somewhat" a relationship, I'm married to S and then K and I hit it off and are...
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    Triad goal - stuck in limbo (very long)

    Thanks for the insight. it does help!
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    Triad goal - stuck in limbo (very long)

    Had a thought today.... I had a thought today after reading a few threads on here (this site has been very helpful).....and rather than post a new thread I figured I'd ask here since it gives some background to whats going on in my life at the current moment.... I understand that not every...
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    Triad goal - stuck in limbo (very long)

    I've only written about my fears and concerns....there have been times were her and I have hung out and the connection and spark is there....we have shared fantasies with each other about each other....she has shared them with my husband as well....but I think her fears, insecurities, guilt...
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    Triad goal - stuck in limbo (very long)

    Thank you for your insight....I agree with a lot of your points. I will try to respond to each of them. I agree that she is the one stopping herself from doing anything because of her own reasons, I have done my best to show her that I am okay with her loving my husband and he loving her etc...
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    Please help me get over the hump

    Token, Just want to say that I am grateful for stumbling upon your post. While my situation and dynamic right now is a bit different from what you are going through, a LOT of the feelings and emotions and deep rooted issues are the same and hit home for me. I pray and hope things work out for...
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    Triad goal - stuck in limbo (very long)

    I believe her faith has a lot to do with it. And I also believe that she cares a lot about what people think of her...and since this type of relationship is new to her, new to all three of us really, she doesn't want anyone to know....she's also not divorced yet and doesn't want to cheat or be...
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    Triad goal - stuck in limbo (very long)

    Where do I even begin? I am a very soon to be 30yr old, married to my husband, S, for 4yrs, been together for just about 6 and knew each other all through high school...we have 2 kids together, 2.5 and 1...before we had kids we talked of an open relationship or more just a swinging lifestyle as...
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