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When I mentioned Attachment Theory to my counselor, she doesn't think that it is really applicable as I had a solid upbringing, as did Troop. I'm still researching it though, as I'd like to find out more. I didn't make it to the library yesterday before they closed, but I have Attached on...

GreenApples918, thank you for the suggestion on attachment theory! (I keep wanting to write string theory - SO not the same thing!) One of the sites I looked at referenced a book which I now have on order with the local branch library. I should be able to pick it up in a day or two. Looks like...

Poly is hard. There are so many different emotions to process, especially as this is my first experience with a poly relationship. While I don't have any other partners, my partner (Troop) does. I've known about the other partners since the start. It wasn't an issue for me at first as the two...

When I first met my partner Troop just over two months ago, I knew that he had three other partners in his life. One of them, Maly, had been in Troop's life for a bit over a year, and he was a secondary partner to her. She's in her late 20's or early 30's, a full-time student, works part time...

Let's see... I'm 35, new to poly (first poly relationship), and full of questions (which is why I love forums, because I know I'm not the only one with questions - and there are so many possible answers!). For a long time, I moved from one relationship to another, with most of my relationships...