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Mono, thanks for your responses. That was exactly where my head was, except the marriage thing. I wanna marry her more now that we are communicating more openly than ever before! I know that I may end up without her because of her feelings, but for now, she will be Ms. Newguy soon, and my next...

Scared… I just got the new of my fiance’ (Polykat on here) wants another relationship also…our situation is very similar to yours…with the exception of her not have anyone in mind, hers may include dudes, and I didn’t leave or give an ultimatum….also, I’m not threaten by another female…so, I...

AnnabelMore, Correct on all except the part above. I don't want her to not be able to achieve complete happiness, but I don't think that I could be in a relationship where she didn't refrain. My thought is that one day this desire will be stronger than her love for me and she will act on it...

Good to hear, baby... I love you!! ;) (I would say "love, NewGuy," but we both know that's not what I want, so...) Love, ME

Thanks, Jade. Everyone knows that we are engaged, but we have not set a date. But even when we do get married, it won't be a big wedding, just me, her, the pastor, and a witness or two. I say that because after/if we get through this, we can get married without hesitation.

Hello all, I already posted (or tried to post) this to one of Polykat’s posts, but I’m restarting here to get a fresh start. It was in response to Mono's post. I’m Polykat’s fiance. I read your suggested posts on your feelings, but what made me comment at this time (first time commenting on her...

Mono and All, I’m Polykat’s fiance. I read your suggested posts on your feelings, but what made me comment at this time (first time commenting on her post) was this statement you made: “You need to look out for yourself by not committing to a monogamous marriage if you can't be healthy.” I...

WOW...Thanks ladies!!!! You have answered most of my questions...and I appreciate that But I do have a question...not to be racist...but are there many black mono men in your lives? Curious, because I'm black and I have never even heard of this...and I have been all over the world and have...

Ok...so I'm not sure how to go about this so please be gentle with me.... Evidently, I'm mono...didn't even know about poly until yesterday...I knew about swinging...anyway, I was blind-sided yesterday with this and have been doing as much research as possible to figure out if I can be in a...