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18 and a wake up!!! MY THOUGHTS.... 18 days until I see PK..... Not sure if I'm looking forward to our first face-to-face discussion on Poly...but it has to happen... I think, (MY THOUGHTS ONLY) that if we would have had the initial conversation in person, I would have been more incline to...

Yep. I like that dude. Walter is the man! But back on subject. I just needed to know if I was wrong for feeling shitty because I got this news in a text, and you have helped me through that. Now, PK and I have worked through most of our communication issues. Thanks for responding, everyone.

So did you read this part???? I mean before you posted the below??? I think you did read it all...so I would assume that the statement still saying PK would even have a "fuck buddy" was just a filler to get your next part in... OK, you say "no one wants to be second choice" but most Poly...

All read please HELLO ALL.... I asking you all to please don't critize PK on this thread...I have asked her not to respond or post because these are my thoughts adn I didn't want her defending me or trying to explain to you guys what I meant....so, because she chose to honor my reqeust, I...

Ok...degrading to PK... Let me say this, PK would never use anyone (male or female) as a sex buddy...yes, she is trying to see if she could have an intimate relationship with a woman...will it lead to sex? I don't know...will the relationship even develop? Again, I don't know...will she have...

Thanks? Vixtoria, Thanks for sharing your opinion. Arrowbound, Thanks for co-signing Vixtoria's opinion. I have considered what you said and I can tell you that I told (informed) PK that I DIDN'T want her to be with a woman for me...In fact, I have been asking her to leave me because I...

Thinking about my Visit to see PK MY Thoughts I'm going to see PK next month...EXCITED!!!!! First visit since our open communication started...EXCITED!!!! First visit since I found out about Poly.....Scared... Ok...so I don't think it will be any different...not really worried but the...

Today's thoughts JUST MY THOUGHTS Boundaries....every poly relationship has boundaries. I have read a lot of stories, posts, and blogs on this site and others, were some poly relationship boundaries are broken by someone in the relationship. My boundary...No longterm, intimate, sexual...

Thanks Phy... I needed that.

Ok...just to make sure I understand, out of all that I wrote, your point now is that I used Alpha Male wrongly and PK is choosing my happiness over her own...even though I was told that I was an Alpha Male by your peers (poly females), given that title based on my thinking...Alpha male is not a...

MY Thoughts on MY Blog MY THOUGHTS Ok…so tonight, I spent three hours reading and responding to posts on my blog of what I was thinking…I missed my chat time with PK to do this…. I now think, “Is it worth it?” I have been called inconsiderate, traditional, old fashion, insecure, selfish...

SNeacail, I need to apologize for the harsh tone I used in my first response...I should not have let my emotions get away and lashed out at you. I can't or won't apologize for what I said for those are my thoughts and the way that I feel and I can't apologize for being me. But when you (and...

I apologize for the confusion. PK can have long-term, emotional relationships with whomever she wants (male or female), but the romantic sexual aspect of relationships is what I was referring to in this statement.

WOW...Thanks for your opinion???... Ok...a little about me, I have no idea how to 'sugar coat' things so here goes... I'm not sure what to think about your post...at first, you say that I'm not shit because of how I feel and then you say give her what she wants... Maybe there are some more...

No...the question is not to personal...I'm not sure what your question is...but I'll tell you why I asked her not to comment on here...if she wants to discuss what I wrote then we (me and her) will discuss. What I don't want is her either defending me or trying to explain what I meant. If this...

Hello all, PolyKat (PK) informed me of her feelings of being poly through text message. Yes, I know this happened a while ago, but I have just had time to think about it and reflect on how fucked-up of a way this was to find this out. I did think at the time that it was an untimely...

I miss PK... Ok...something that you didn't know...PK is away for her job and she left in last year...she is scheduled to get back in April...I'm going to visit her next month... Now, all of our Poly talks came after she left...in fact, she left in October, I visited her in December (no talks)...

PK and I are on the Hunt PK and I are both looking for girlfriends...She wants a relationship with a girl that's just like her (this is almost 'Mission Impossible') to start a relationship with that will last a while...I want somone just like her to have sex with (not quite 'Mission Impossible"...

So.... PolyKat is my Fiance'...I told her that I'm starting this BLOG and I asked her not to comment... Ok...so today (actually since I found out about Poly) I have a lot on my mind and I decided to put here for several reasons but the main one is neither one of us (PolyKat nor I) want to 'go...

Cheryl, I agree with Ice. Your question does need/deserve a more-emotionally intelligent answer. I will attempt to do this. First, let me say that I agree with you when you said, "But how can being poly or mono be hardwired into an individual, male or female, without accepting of it for...