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I have faith ! lunabunny, Childhood issues are not consistent only of traumas, but also by the harm of missing elements of love and care. An invisible harm which is even more prevalent. Thus fact is that majority of us has childhood issues, yet the ones who are sufficiently aware of those...

Yes, paternalistic. powerpuffgrl1969, powerpuffgrl1969, yes I may be paternalistic. This can be uncomfortable for some, but is a desirable trait in other circumstances. Such as parenting, were I receive many compliments, and working a technical leader, were I'm very respected. And it is a...

ref2018 knows it ref2018, I loved reading your reply. That exactly the kind of freedom I dream about. In past, my father built a huge square bed for the entire family. That's how animals spend their nights, close to each other and sharing body heat, so it is very natural. Though the family...

Revelations .... anamikanon, I didn't ignore advice from all others. I just didn't have enough time to reply. I did reply to you disagreeing with a particular advice or yours and that seems to have hurt your feelings, so I'm sorry. Is that conclusion based on the fact that I'm not precise in...

Good point. Yes I guess a platonic relation is enough to me. The thing is that I have sexual attraction for Cam too, as a side-effect. And Cam for me (she melts down inside), but she restrains her self quite well in order to be respectful with my wife. I wasn't so smart however. I didn't put...

Some people have the grace of doing that job of introducing someone new to the group. All you have to do is to be in the right place at the right time and someone like that will approach you, if you allow. There are lots of groups over the internet of people who meet together for a common...

taking a nap together Calagirl, Yep, that's what I meant. Sorry because English is not my primary language. I see now in the dictionary that "sleep with" denotes sex, but I was naive on that statement. Maybe that's why I felt stereotyped here. :p I believe the love that comes from sharing...

Sleep is better than sex Emm, please review what I said in my first post: "My dream scenario is to sleep with both of them together, not for sex but for love.". I like sex multiple times per week and I know it plays a critical role in creating bonds, but for me sleeping together is more...

Emm, sorry if I'm using wrong terminology. I don't expect them to be romantically or sexually involved, since they have never shown any bisexual tendencies, but I do expect them to be intimate affectionately and develop some kind of love.

Thanks for all replies. My 2nd posts to this thread is on moderation (the first 5 get moderated). That will clarify many things. Feel free to make any questions.

The easiest way to know new people is through people who you do already know. That is the missing ingredient, I think. So meed the first person, preferably someone who knows many other people, and from there things should become easier. :)

More details... Hey hey, wait a minute people... More impressive then the amount of attention I got is the amount of judgment and stereotyping that came with it. There is however one who stands out of the crowd. kdt26417, you got the point ! But, let me clarify some things for all others who...

Hey there ! I feel like polyamory, not necessarily sexual, can be effective in healing childhood issues, at least for me. I have sadness in me because I didn't get enough love, so I'm in a Love Quest ! :) I'm in a monogamous relationship though, but some progress has been made. My wife agreed...