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Minorities in poly I've begun to notice that the majority of poly members are white, with little to know minorities(especially asians from what I've seen) A friend and I were having this discussion on fetlife and it makes me wonder a few things as a minority myself. 1. Are there any minority...

Not someone you met online first. Someone you met in life and found out was poly. Or have you been able to get someone interested in poly when you told them you were?

You mean like Ted Nugent, Irvin Baxter, and others?

HA HA HA AHA HA HA! Excuse for me for sounding a bit rude here and I apologize in advanced but that doesn't even work now! It will never work in the future even as an adult.

I guess I just don't want to explain why I want to do it. I don't really know how to explain it to them. Hell they have a hard enough time thinking about other possibilities for me. For example it's outright assumed I want kids or even if I don't I will have them anyway, which may or may not be...

Well no I don't. But not all parents are the same. I'm not saying anyone should hide it but for me personally in the future...... I'm not so sure or certain. In truth their disapproval would be disheartening but wouldn't stop me.

I understand that completely. While mine aren't exactly the extremely religious and conservative type(they are religious but I don't think it's that bad) I still feel that they would have problems with it that probably aren't(at least for the most part) related to religion

How do you hide this from your parents? Don't they ever come to visit or anything?

What are all of the arguments against polyamory that you've heard in your time and what would be your rebuttal.

Oddly enough for me they are one in the same on the playing field. If I trust a woman enough to penetrate her then I probably trust her enough to her dom/master ect. Likewise if I trust her enough to say peg me then I trust her enough to be her sub/slave ect. The thing for me is there's no rope...

Curious question, when it comes to answering questions on okcupid, I've gotten several different types of feedback. Like only answer a certain number of them or only answer particular ones or answer them in a particular way because it will make you sound more interesting. What advice do you...

Sweet! How did it go?

Naturally in my process of researching all of these things I come across interesting articles that lead to me asking more questions. http://www.polyamorysociety.org/page14.html http://www.kathylabriola.com/articles/poly-living-styles-should-we-all-live-together...

As I continue upon my dangerous quest into the ancient realm of polyamory(and this forum) I've been thinking more and more about what exactly is needed between poly individuals to make it work. Now obviously I don't think there is a one way for all method. Everyone is different and has...

Nope nada. Not as far as I've researched.

But uh............. I don't think I could tell my family(especially my parents) yet if at all.

Two of my closest friends know actually. They've known me for years and are generally tolerant too as long as I'm happy.

By the way, this is gonna sound kind of lame, but I find it somewhat funny and a little ironic(for me at least) that people online are essentially telling me to go outside. Don't get me wrong I love it, I just find it funny given the stereotypes of the digital age. :D

Fair enough. You make a good point. Just one problem I have is that I am an introverted person and I don't really know how to be open about being poly and kinky? I'm not dating right now(never have) so I don't really know how to be open about poly. Do I just walk around saying it to everyone...

Though I do still meet people in real life all the time. Though no one I've ever wanted to start a relationship with yet.