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I thought it was time to start a blog. I keep a paper journal, and it's nearly full, so that's part of the motivation. The other is that I think I could occasionally benefit from other people's input. When I have days where I am struggling with my relationships, I'm not my usual rational self. I...

Hey folks, just wondered what people's opinions were on a current dilemma I have. Nina and I were in a triad for about a year with a guy called Jay. That ended a while ago for complicated reasons that can be crudely summarised as being because his primary partner, Lily, a friend of ours and the...

Greetings all, Just wondering if anyone has experienced anything like this and whether they had any useful advice for us. TL/DR version - we are struggling to know how to help our metamour and friend cope with our deepening relationship with her primary partner. A bit of background: me and my...

Greetings all. My partner and I are in the process of opening our relationship and have been finding the forum very useful as a passive resource to read together. Just as a tiny bit of background: we are a same-sex couple who consider each other as primary, and she has met a lovely chap she'd...

Seasons greetings everyone! Long time lurker, first time poster. I suppose I should start by saying that it may not immediately be obvious why I am posing my question here, as I am currently in a mono r-ship with my gf of over 3 years. However, I figure this community has a wealth of experience...