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    Happiness-- what is it?

    So this is going to sound a bit silly, but I am actually serious about the question. I've been doing a lot of thinking lately about my life and myself and the way I go about things that seem to be based (at least partially) on how I was raised. My life has been fairly chaotic, fairly unstable...
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    How do you keep stress from your SOs relationship from affecting you?

    OK, strange situation, but it leads to a question that I'm looking for help with. An issue has come up in hubs' relationship--one that has me very concerned. I've voiced my concerns to him and he's thinking about it, but the worry about the situation has spiked my anxiety to higher points than...
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    Resources/Advice for Secondaries

    I don't really care for the word secondary, but hey, at least most peeps here will know what I mean, in general. :) Short and sweet, hubs and I have been together for 10 years, always nonmonogamous but had a lot of other relational issues. We've worked through them recently and are good, but...
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    Dealing with NRE long distance

    Hey all! So I'm looking for some ideas on how to deal with your SO's NRE when you're 3,000 miles apart. :) Basically, hubs has a new girlfriend, and it's moved really fast (faster than either of them thought) into something more serious, or at least not just a sexual relationship. Where it goes...
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    Butterflies in stomach...

    OK, so this is a general question I'm asking because of something I experience and I wanted to get some more perspectives on it. My husband is seeing someone where he is living right now (we're separated by distance until the end of August). I like what I've heard about her, and we are going to...
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    Minxxa's Little Corner of the World

    OK. So I thought maybe it's time to start a blog on here, though I may or may not update it super often. But there are some things going on that don't fit into the seperate thread thing, and things that only people here might appreciate!! So I'm going to do this a little at a time. A brief...
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    Keeping a rein on thoughts...

    I'm having an issue that I'm trying to work on, and I thought I'd ask here and see if there was any advice. Some background on me, my husband and I are nonmonogamous. I would say poly, but I think it's a work in progress for us. We have never been monogamous since we met, he knew I was poly...
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    Minxxa Waves Hello

    Hi all! I am new to these forums (have been reading and such for a few weeks, though), but not so new to the concept of polyamory, though I've been at times successful and at times... not so much. :) A short introduction: I've known I was non-monogamous for 15 years. My ex-husband and I tried...
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