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    Closing the door on poly

    Last night, my husband woke me up by snuggling up close, wrapping his arms around me, kissing me gently like he never does, and whispering in my ear, "I love you, Susan*" Touching me, stroking my shoulder. Three times, over 10 minutes. Now he was clearly asleep; he kept falling limp and...
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    Rolling in the Deep

    So I've been here a while, posted in Poly Relationships a few times, but I feel like I need a more... bloggy style thing. So here has been my journey through poly thus far. My first few posts can be found here and here. That brings me up to more recent history. I made a choice to cut ties...
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    Metamour in pain... can I help?

    So my metamour and my husband came out to her mother last night. It... did not go well. Her mother has, to put it bluntly, flipped her shit. She's been calling her daughter names, whipping the whole "you're going to hell" thing, even calling family so they'll dogpile as well. Mind you, the...
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    Getting to know you questions!

    So I finally have a second date with someone I'm actually interested in, with the potential for future relationship status. He's not poly, but he's asked LOTs of questions about it, and is open minded and intrigued. He wants to meet my husband, eventually, and he has kids he'd like me to meet...
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    So easily offended...

    Thought this would make you guys smile.
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    Wish finding new relationships was easier

    I know, I can't force this, and if it's not going to happen, it's not. I do feel the need to vent, though. My husband has the devil's own luck when it comes to relationships. Less than a month after breaking up with his last girlfriend, he's already found someone he's smitten with. It's...
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    Guys who argue against protection

    Is this something you've found to be common? I've had at least two guys try to convince me they don't need condoms; one was being a douchebag, and was drunk; I eventually walked away, because this girl don't play that. The other is an older man who *claims* he has a low sperm count, and...
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    My heart is breaking.

    I don't know that I'm asking advice; I have made my decision, and I"m sticking to it. My husband and I have been pretty successfully poly for about four months. He has three women he's interested in; one he's madly in love with, one he's just dating, and another who's a regular playmate. I...
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    So I suck at monogamy

    I've said this often over the years, but lately, it's settled as a reality, for me. Some background. I've been with my husband for 16 years, married for 12. We have two beautiful children. I love him deeply, and even though he has dealt with many issues (addiction, alcoholism, etc) we have...
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