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    Having the poly talk with a prospective date

    So, I've met a few folks (in real life, not online). They seem into me, and I'm into them. I do wear a wedding band, but I've decided I want to be clear about the committed relationship I have with my wife before any first date. I was thinking something like, "Hey, I really enjoy being with...
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    No dates for me: how to avoid playing the victim?

    Hey folks, So, a familiar story ... newly opened hetero marriage: she has ample dates, I'm struggling to get anyone on OKC to even notice me. Online and off, married men over 50 seem to be kryptonite haha. I've been reading and thinking and processing quite a bit. At this point I don't feel...
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    Howdy from DC

    Hi folks, Just joined the forum and figured I should say "hi." :D Long story short, I have tons of questions and concerns about opening my married relationship, something my wife has suggested. Sometimes I'm ok with it, but I'm still having a lot of problems at a gut level. I wanted a place...
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