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    When metamours unite

    Today was another surreal moment in my newish life as a member of a poly family. I was very annoyed (to put it lightly) about something Beloved was doing, and I wanted to have a talk with him about it. I called LP and the conversation went like this: Me: LP, I'm really upset about something...
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    What my kid shared the other day

    I was driving my car with my 12 year old sitting next to me, riding in silence. Then she said, "I'm so glad you're my mom." My heart swelled up and I told her I'm glad she was my daughter. Then I asked what made her say what she did. She said, "You are just a really great mom. You are so...
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    Poly V hurt and pain with non-poly partner

    I really need some input from experienced poly folks. I am new to this. I have very much appreciated the support and advice I've received on other threads. (See sig below for family structure) LP is not poly, but very much knew Beloved was poly when they got together 6 years ago, and was okay...
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    Designing a relationship to grow over time

    The book More Than Two has been a great read for me. I am working my way through each chapter and seeing what things we have done right, wrong, and things we need to think about. My Beloved asked me several weeks ago if this relationship as it stands is enough for me. He and his life partner...
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    Do you feel free to state your desires?

    I am a member of a closed V, and recently we did an interesting exercise that brought forth all kinds of feelings, as well as huge steps forward. I wanted to share that experience here and end with a question for you. We each wrote a list of our desires for the family as a whole, for ourselves...
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    Organically grown

    Hello! I'm new to poly and our chosen family came about very organically. None of us was looking, but it just happened. I simultaneously fell in love with a poly man (and he with me) through a budding friendship, and at the same time grew to deeply love his long-time female non-poly partner...
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    Unique situation, looking for friendship, support

    nevermind Nevermind, want to lurk a bit before posting an intro. :-)
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