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    Got an eye opener with STD today..

    The girl my husband is seeing (he has had no sexual contact with her yet), her husbands partner tested positive for Herpies 2... Its freaking us out a bit. They just found out. Honestly it has spooked my husband and myself a bit and were trying to read up on it. What now? Ive been doing...
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    Husband on a date

    His second one with the new girl, or he will be anyhow. He had to work a 12 hour shift today and is headed over to her house right after. I'm trying to occupy myself. I feel calmer then I have in the past, but I know he is still at work atm. We all met up last week, GF and her husband...
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    Two options. Trying to understand choice.

    So, My husband and I went through the LDR/Quad attempt debacle. I tried to link it here, the thread. Anyhow it didnt end well. We talked and have been working through it, that was just over a month ago. We decided to go ahead and look or be open to partners here in our town. Again...
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    Just an update

    Just wanted to let you all know were doing fine. Lots of talking, and then a few days of just vegging out playing video games or whatever to find something else to do and take our minds off of things temporarily. But We are doing good, making progress and working on the issues that were...
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    Is this normal?

    Considering everything that has happened, this early on I suppose. My husband seems to want to talk (confide) in anyone else but me right now on the deeper stuff. I get its probably awkward, but I really wish he would be ok confiding in me, I'm assuming its normal this early on. I just wish...
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    A few things we have learned.

    Husband and I have both talked and realized a LOT of what we did wrong in this situation. We jumped in before we were prepared. We know that we will not being seeking out partners until he and I feel we are both ready to not have the rules ands restrictions in place. With that said, How long...
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    Clean break, discovered manipulation.

    My husband, although he was, and so was I still thinking there was a possibility of a possible future for him and GF, have decided to make a clean break from them. It was a choice my husband made after what conspired last night. In chatting with GF and her husband both, we realized something...
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    Mistakes.. made a trip to see Husbands GF.

    As I mentioned before, She and I are also friends. She is married, the hope was that I would also connect with her husband. We are finding we made a lot of first time mistakes. A lot. First off we stayed in their home (financial reasons as we couldn't have made the trip otherwise). We were...
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    Valentines bust...

    So, Normally my Husband and I dont do a lot for valentines, but we generally try to do something small at least. (Flowers, spend time together, ect). Now we are heading out this week (Friday) to meet our friends out of state (His online GF). So yesterday we were in the store, and keep in mind...
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    OkCupid and Privacy

    This has been my biggest drawback. You are required to have a photo, or they keep sending you messages. My biggest concern is my ex, or someone he knows coming across my profile. He does not have a huge network, so I wonder for anyone who was concerned about privacy, have you actually had any...
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    New to this, dealing with jealousy.

    I realize there are plenty of books and articles on this, but I dont think its a substitute for RL feedback. With that said, a little background; Husband and I about 4 years ago decided to "open" our relationship up. At the time we had no idea what this meant, Not even sure if we had heard of...
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    New here

    Hi, I'm new :) So difficult to just introduce myself. I'm from the Detroit Metro area of Michigan. I am married 6 years now to a wonderful man. We have children together, who are amazing, and challenging at times :) We have been looking into Polyamory for ourselves for a while now, and would...
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