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Metamour made a comment to hinge "I can't wait until it's just you and me again." My anger keeps coming back up despite my logic. I pointed out if I ever said something like that, it would be seen as an attempt to cowboy the hinge away from his other partner. And I pointed out that he would...

I could have done this as a private message but I thought about how often when I'm scared or uncertain that I've searched and searched the polyamory forum here and at reddit that I looked for information relevant to my situation. So I'm typing this out in case anyone else ends up in the same...

I tried to do what everyone suggested and enjoy the period of calm. It lasted longer than I expected, to May from December. But hinge went home and caught metamour crying in the shower, where she indicated that she's been wearing a game face since December and that she still doesn't want to...

So, I know that some thought sending flowers to my metamour was too much. My metamour kept the flowers on the table and then sent our hinge with peach cobbler and her recipe to me after she found an old postcard I had sent her last year. I guess it altered her perspective. She scheduled their...

I think the one thing about polyamory that has stood out to me is the amount of processing it seems to bring related to self awareness. I still haven't mapped out boundaries of when I should walk per the last conversation on here. Metamour has written me a letter of apology and indicated she...

My metamour told our hinge that she hated me and that she hated every single person he had dated before me. She still insists she is not polyamorous. She had sent me an email to advise me of that. I pointed out either she was polyamorous (because she loves and lives with two partners) or she...

When metamour reacted with suicide threat and hinge pushed therapy for her, she waffled out and said she had no intentions of committing suicide as she had children. Hinge said he didn't want to piss her off pushing therapy and having to live with anger and a grudge so backed down from trying to...

Like I don't want the relationship to end but I felt I needed to step back. I took the advice of the forum and tried to meet our shared partner and go out for our visitation. I was going to take us to a park so we could stargaze and then walk and drop him off at home. When she heard he was...

First, I'd like to thank the forum for helping me with the last difficulty. I thought the situation was resolving itself, as three weeks ago my metamour and I had a brief conversation where she gave me an unasked for apology and I confessed I had fears she would end the relationship. I thought...

Situation: Last week, metamour told partner that she wanted partner to downgrade relationship of partner and me to the equivalent of fuck buddy. My shared partner told me and was froze with indecision over how to handle the situation because he didn't want to lose me and knew I wouldn't accept...