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I have posted here before about my poly experiences/relationships. I am married and live long distance from my husband, and have another male partner who I live close to and more or less consider primary. This has been a roller coaster over the past 3 years. I have moved several times, tried...

Hi Poly friends, It has been SOO long since I have visited over here. I think my last threads were almost a year ago, I was struggling with missing my partner/BF who had moved to the east coast, while simultaneously feeling "left out" and upset at my husband and his GF in California (I had...

Hi all, last I was on here was December. Something happened last night that was a reminder I'm not out of the woods with my insecurities and worries about relationships. Here is my last thread here which is pretty long and extensive...

Hi All, I started writing this last night, got interrupted by a phone call, and lost the whole thing.. LOL. I guess I was meant to write it differently. I want to thank all of you who have helped me with all my serious changes/transitions related to my relationships. If you don't remember or...

Hi All, First of all I want to say a huge thanks for the people who are on here and are so supportive of me, and of each other. I browse on here a lot, and learn so much from your posts. It makes me think and reflect a great deal about my own experiences, and has been so valuable! I am...

Hi All, I have posted before semi-recently about struggles with my husband, his other partner, and my other partner. Without taking a whole long post to give the background about everything, I'll be short.. if people have questions, I can answer them. I just moved away for a new job. Husband...

I apologize if the title of this thread comes across in a dramatic way. I don't necessarily think I feel "abandoned," right now, but I do feel very emotionally fragile and have been having ups and downs peppered with insecurity about both my partners for at least the last month. When this...

I wasn't sure if this should be posted here, or in the relationships section but here goes. Sometimes it can feel so isolating to be struggling with the emotions and experiences of poly and not have people to confide in who "get it," or understand. On the one hand, I am lucky enough to have...

I’m not really sure what I am looking for in terms of advice or feedback in posting this. I just need to air my thoughts and feelings in a safe space. If anyone has ever experienced anything like this, I welcome your perspective! Brief history is that I am married (let’s call him H). H and I...

Hi all, Something that has been coming up for me lately is the current experience of NRE I am experiencing in my newer partnership, and how this affects my other partnership (coincidentally, my husband, but i don't think the title matters). I have been with my lover for about 4 months, and we...

Hi, I am writing this to get some feedback and thoughts, hopefully from people who have had first hand experience with being poly and either being in the military, or being involved with someone in the military (The US military). I am married and in a poly relationship with my husband. The...

Hi everyone, New here, just got on this week. My husband and I have been talking about poly for approximately a year, and actively open for about 9 months of that time. We each have a partner outside of our relationship and it's going wonderfully so far. I am most interested in topics related...