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  1. Shades

    The public side of things

    Lately, I've been pondering the question, "Under what circumstances would it be a good idea to let other people know that I'm poly?" I'd rather not have to tell people. It's just not my style to talk about the personal side of my life with people who aren't lovers or potential lovers. But if...
  2. Shades

    Openly Engaged

    My boyfriend recently proposed to me. I said yes. And we had a good conversation about what commitment meant to us. The conversation was really good. I had been wondering if maybe we weren't entirely on the same page because he's more mono-inclined and I'm more poly-inclined. It turns out...
  3. Shades

    Curious

    I'm taking some time to figure some things out about myself while I'm in a very long-distance mono relationship. We really care about each other, but we currently live on opposite sides of the world and are not sure when or if we'll get to live in the same country together again. I'm sticking...
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