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"The road goes on forever and the party never ends..." It’s 5 am and I’m a little punchy. Been up since 4 trying to figure this one out, so I thought I’d reach out to old friends. Can someone shed some insight so I can get some sleep? Yet another teary discussion last night with my...

Question: *Is 'required' condom usage a reasonable request/boundary for oso's by ones primary? Background : My primary girlfriend, 'L' (50) and I (52) have known each other for 3 years *are in a long distance *relationship (she lives in Texas and I live in Florida). *We see each other about...

Does anybody else have difficulty with double standards? Being the way I am, I don't understand why I have trouble feeling comfortable/totally accepting if my significant others are the same way I am. I think I'm having hypothetical double standard issues. I'm trying to place myself in my...

When I preview (or post) a thread I wrote, each sentance starts and ends with an asteric. HOW DO I STOP THIS. I'm using an iPhone 3G... I know, it's an antique... Although it didn't happen here..

Okay, I'm stuck. I have gone back and forth, round and round. I could really use a different perspective on how to accomplish getting past a seemingly obvious impasse in a relationship. I need help achieving fluidity (in the dynamics of the relationship, not as in fluid bonding, just to make...

Oops, meant to spell that MORENESS... Hello again, I was asked by my SO, Rubyslippers, to seek y'alls thoughts on this, as I'm in unfamiliar waters.... again. Navigational aids would be appreciated so I don’t end upon the rocks. (Like my two marriages did...) I’ve always 'jumped' right into...

I have sought advice from these threads before and hope someone can get through to me. I could really use some help here. Either help or a good hard kick in the arse... I would prefer the help though because I have been doing a lot of self arse kicking and it doesn’t seem to be doing any...

I am in a polyamorous "V" relationship with my SO and a longtime friend who became more, then even more (meaning love feelings happened). Everything was very good for the most part, except my friend has a boyfriend ("Steve") who does not know about me. I am divorced because I was deceitful...