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    Poly and Lawyers and legal stuff

    Hello, everyone! I was wondering if I could get suggestions from you guys! My longterm poly triad is meeting with an attorney on Friday to discuss the legalities of having such a relationship, family planning, estate planning, medical options, buying a house together, raising kids together, and...
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    mortgages, taxes, merging finances, legalities, adoption

    Hello, Poly World! Thanks for reading my thread, and hopefully responding! "Poly-fidelitous" triad here, 3 year relationship, living together, super happy, planning a future together. Living in North Carolina. Here are a few questions that hopefully someone can help us with! 1. Girlfriend...
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    To have kids or not to have kids, that is the question.

    Hey, poly world! I'm seeking advice from like minded individuals. Quick background: me and hubby, married for 12 years me hubby and girlfriend, together for 2.5 years, living together as a triad. Cutting to the chase ... The hubby and I had never wanted kids when it was just the two of us. He...
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    Random Questions for Fellow Polyshippers!

    Hello out there! I hope everyone is doing well!! My relationship is going very well. (Poly triad: hubby, wife, girlfriend - each date each other.) Our girlfriend is on the verge of moving in with us. Very big, happy step! I have a series of questions that I'll number for organization purposes...
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    Advice for the Future: Opening a Closed Triad

    You guys always seem to help, for the most part, with all-things-poly, so I'm going to tell you what's going on with my poly right now, in hopes that you all might give helpful opinions. Right now, we are 4 relationships: Wife, Husband, Girlfriend Wife, Girlfriend Wife, Husband Husband...
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    Seeking sexual relationship advice

    Hello, everyone! Looking for some advice/opinions/suggestions on my particular situation. Background: I'm in a triad where we all date each other individually, plus as a trio. Me/Husband. Husband/Girlfriend. Me/Girlfriend. All3 together. Essentially, 4 relationships. The issue I'm struggling...
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    keeping score - trying not to

    I find myself always keeping score and getting upset about it. Like .... "you had sex with her two times this week and only 1 time with me" ... that kind of stuff. It makes me angry, sad, jealous and insecure if my numbers are behind hers. Obviously, its not a good thing to do, so I'm wondering...
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    Seeking Triad Advice

    Bio: I am a woman, married to my husband 10 years. I started dating a beautiful girl 2 months ago. We all date each other: me and him, me and her, her and him, and the three of us. Question #1: She and the husband have had sexual relations without me, but not penetrative vaginal sex. I know...
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    Dealing with feelings of being left out

    Hello, everyone. I am not a huge active user, but have recently been reading more and more posts. It's so helpful to have this forum to help me along my journey. A lil backstory... I am a girl, been married to husband for almost 10 years. we've dabbled here in there with the poly lifestyle...
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    What happens when rules are broken?

    Hello. My husband and I are very new to the poly world. A couple of weeks ago, we invited a woman to join us and develop a poly status. We were happy, and things were going right, up until this weekend. We both broke our two very important rules. Mine was communication. I was feeling very...
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