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  1. whatamIdoing

    Why can't I love both of them?

    Well, I can. But they can't handle it. I love my DH. I love J. Both DH and J have said they love me, and NEITHER wants to share. Damn it all to hell. I can do this and they can't.
  2. whatamIdoing

    My husband is in NRE

    ...and I'm so excited for him! He met a woman. She explained to him why this life works. He's starting to get it. B never ever thought he'd want to be poly. But she is poly. Her husband's GF is a former schoolmate of my husband's. I haven't met any of them yet, but she sounds wonderful...
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    Losing the battles so I can win the war

    I think I'm going to need a place to put all my stuff, my thoughts and feelings and what happens. I need to keep this part of my life here for several reasons. Yesterday I kissed hubby (B) goodbye and got in my car and drove 2 hours to see my new friend (J). It was our first time together...
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    I need advice on how to tell hubby I'm going to see the new guy

    I need advice on how to tell hubby I'm going to see the new guy. Hi all. Well, my life continues to be up and down... and interesting. Here's the latest. My husband asked me last night if I minded if he went on an overnight trip with our friend C. I don't mind him going with C and told him to...
  5. whatamIdoing

    Is this reasonable?

    Most of you realize that I'm very new to this and I'm really struggling, as is my husband (B). Switching from swinging to polyamory is harder than I thought, nearly impossible for B. He swears it's person-specific, but since this is the first time I've tried this, I can't be sure. But that's...
  6. whatamIdoing

    This could be fun.... need question ideas

    Hey all, I am carrying on with my new fella via email. It's hard to keep him engaged sometimes, so we are going to play the "question game." I'm up for any suggestions as to good questions to ask, both sexy and non-sexy. I actually need more help with those. Thanks in advance!
  7. whatamIdoing

    Ahh... so now the problems begin

    I talking to my hubby today. He is sad. I can tell. :confused: He says he thinks if I want a second husband, that he's not enough. I told him I would end this with Mr. DNPWWO, but he said he can't ask me to do that. And to be honest, I don't wanna... I think it's because I'm saying things...
  8. whatamIdoing

    OMG WHAT AM I doing HERE?

    :D HI <waves> I am no stranger to message boards... I am totally not sure i belong here but with what's going on in my life I think I need to talk about it.... this seemed like the place to be... Me: 50, female, married for 6 years to my third husband who is 39.... there are children from...
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