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    Letting Go of a Toxic Experience (and some works on how not to be poly)

    So, a about 2 1/2 years ago, I was really happy to be poly. I lived alone. I'm kinky, bi, and a switch (and was sort of a unicorn). I spent my weekends with a couple, and spent about one weeknight a week with each of three other folks I was dating (who all had their own primaries, so I was...
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    Basic Principles of Poly

    I have had some experience in poly (3 years in limited consensual non-monogamy, then 4 years poly), so I'm not a newbie. I am, however, in a position right now where I'm really analyzing *why* I've been poly. I'm trying to figure out the basic principles that made poly resonate for me. For...
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    Going Slow

    Quick background-- I am already in multiple relationships, and I live alone. I date. And I'm queer, bi-ish (more than 2 genders on my dance card, so an awkward word). I spent my late teens and twenties as totally lesbian, and I will confess to some tendencies towards U-Haul insta-relationship...
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    Finding Balance with Multiple Relationships

    I have been extremely successful at developing relationships with low drama people who are all respectful of each other and support me in my relationships with others. It's a real blessing. My relationships are also of varying ages, with a couple being several years old (established...
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    The L Word

    I don't mean lesbian, I mean love. I've been dating a boy for a bit. Well. Ok, here's the history (will keep it brief). I've had a crush on him for years. I thought he wasn't into me, so okay, but I still have loved him as a friend. We kissed in March. By April, we were starting to see...
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