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    Psychology Today...

    Is apparently having a doctor start sharing information about polyamory on their website. http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201309/what-polyamory-is-and-what-it-is-not I believe this is her first post but she seems to be planning others due to the comments (one is...
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    Living with the Ex

    If you read my blog you found out that Seven recently ended our relationship because Lamian pulled a veto after over a year. You also know that I'm in the process of looking for somewhere else to live because I can't be in the house any longer than I need to. But at the moment I am having to...
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    ^_^

    Cause I had nowhere else to put it... I love the hot pink names.
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    Need advice as to how to handle what may be messy.

    Primal and Peaseblossum are getting together today to talk because they've been having issues for a little bit now and see where things are to go now. Peaseblossum doesn't know what she needs in their relationship. Primal is going there already thinking that things are going to end up over...
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    So I know I messed up...

    But I need advice as to where to go from here. Background: I've asked Primal (hell anyone in my family) to tell me if I do something that causes them stress or whatever so steps can be taken to make sure things are okay. Primal's told me everything is fine. Last night Peaseblossum called and...
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    Trying to cope with a new envy/jealousy.

    So I guess the first step is to figure out which it is. I think it's more envy because I don't want others to lose it, just be able to have it every now and then myself. Before I explain what it is I want to get a generalized type answers on how to go about addressing this new feeling with my...
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    Parental Assistance

    Primal asked me to post this. His mother has been giving him a lot of crap regarding being poly. To the point that everytime they talk, they end up in a fight about it. She wants to know and understand but the two of them butt heads way too much in order for it to be effective by just them. She...
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    Broaching the sex topic

    I'm putting this here in the hopes that someone has some sort of advice on what to give me. Woodsmith and I haven't really had much sex in about a year now and I don't know how to get past my mental hang ups or figure out what his might be. Last October my depression came back full force (I...
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    And boom goes the dynamite.

    And everything has just exploded. One of the things I've probably not really mentioned in my blog is the fact of the matter that I not only love but am in love with everyone in my family. For me when I fall in love with someone I want to be able to share everything with them and be with them...
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    Hierarchy and non-hierarchy in the same polyship.

    Do any of you have this in your polyships? I've realized I sometimes have difficulties with making sure my own mental and emotional well being as well as my partners are all taken care of due to these things. Myself: I do not really see myself as having any hierarchy in my relationships. My...
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    How far do you go for your metamours?

    I kinda posted about this in my blog but I really could use a discussion which may not come from there. Peaseblossum lost her phone recently. Even though Darkeyes lives with her most days either he isn't there or she's with her mom. They don't have internet at their place yet. She's really...
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    Spoon Theory and Polyamory

    So this is something that popped into my head just reading little things on here. First off spoon theory for those who don't know what it is. This was designed by a person who has fibromiylga (sic I know) in talking about invisible diseases. Basically each day you are given a set number of...
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    I just need the support

    This is a thread that I'm asking for advice/assistance/whatever on. My work has been giving me the run around since I got out of the hospital. I have a job, I have a temp job, I'm going to be moved to another section, and then last week was told that when the woman on maternaty leave comes back...
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    Blogging, blogging, blogging.

    I love keeping journals/blogs. I have a problem at holding myself accountable on continuing them however (I have three or four different journals that I've started, stopped, and just haven't picked up again). Hoping having this online one will help keep me accountable to re-journalling in my...
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    Getting over some personal icks.

    Somehow I feel this needs a history. I'm bad at those (almost as bad as I am with introductions to myself). So around May when Primal and I went from BFWB (Best Friends with Benefits) to dating Peaseblossum had some difficulties with it. They had started dating when Lamian and Primal's...
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    The bane of forums...

    I always FAIL at goog introductions. I never know if I'm really putting out what people want to know and do so much better when I'm asked questions but I'll give it a shot. I'm a 26 year old bisexual female. I knit, do burlesque, spin fire, ride horses, take pictures, and model. There's a good...
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