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  1. graviton

    interesting article on breakups

    http://bigthink.com/ideafeed/breaking-up-feels-different-for-men-and-women The above link describes the differences between the genders when it comes to breaking up. It's not specifically about polyamory, but breakups are certainly frequent on here. The segue into poly comes from the comment...
  2. graviton

    for gods sake

    Doesn't someone have the ability to delete these stupid advertising threads and ban the user?
  3. graviton

    Lets talk Labels.

    So I see the words "poly" and "mono" thrown around a lot and there doesn't seem to be a consistent definition for either. For example I have seen people described as being strongly monogamous in the following cases 1. someone that only has the desire to be romantically involved with one...
  4. graviton

    love

    This spoke to me as I'm sure it will many of you. http://truththeory.com/2014/11/01/why-you-should-never-give-up-on-love/
  5. graviton

    Karma

    Do you believe in karma? If so, do you believe that karma has a mystical element to it or does it come from simply reaping what you sow? I believe there are two camps. The mystical camp believes that there is an energy or supernatural force that keeps a system of checks and balances which...
  6. graviton

    Needy people

    I've had a few things happen in my life that are spawning some thoughts that I would like to share. This installment is about neediness. Have any of you been in a relationship with someone who becomes needy, either because you have withdrawn a bit due to time constraints, or emotionally, due...
  7. graviton

    Slate Article on Poly and being in the closet

    Good article (and of course interesting comments) http://www.slate.com/blogs/outward/2013/09/05/why_i_m_still_in_the_polyamory_closet.html
  8. graviton

    what could go wrong?

    hmmmmmm.... saginaw.craigslist.org/etc/3951142275.html opinions?
  9. graviton

    cheating wife started my poly relationship

    Hi gang. Here is the short sweet version. My wife Esther opened up the idea of going poly because she was interested in women. She ended up having both an emotional and physical affair with the husband of the woman she was interested in. She also had a physical and emotional relationship with...
  10. graviton

    poly on Dear Prudence

    www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2013/05/dear_prudence_who_gets_to_celebrate_mother_s_day_in_a_lesbian_marriage.html Dear Prudence fields a few questions about poly. Read through the whole article and look for the following: 1. a letter about poly and losing friends and possibly...
  11. graviton

    Please help a noob

    I am a straight man, in a 17 year marriage to a woman I love very dearly. Call her Esther. I have been smitten with her best friend (Ruth) since I first laid eyes on her 4 years ago. It was unlike anything I have ever felt when I saw her. Fast forward to today. Only 3 months ago, we began...
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