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What do you think they are, i think i often go on about how great it is, and it is great for me but everything has some bad points, my issue mainly Time, (not having enough of it) and how compliated it can get to manage it. Jools

I'm writing my latest blog on this and thought id see what you guys had to say, the most common question i get asked in regards to polyamory is Don't you get jelous? How do you deal with Jelousy? Isn't one enough? Where does everyone sleep? What will you do when you have kids? im sure there...

this is 2nd one, the first one made me out to be a greedy whore, this one is not so bad. http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/2865991/Juliennes-life-practising-polyamory-and-has-two-boyfriends.html#mySunComments we mainly did this for the money to pay for fertility treatment, i do not...

Personally, I do not use these labels in regards to my own relationships. However, that does not mean that I believe it’s wrong to do so, or that I cannot see the advantages of having that kind of structure in a polyamorous set-up. When I first entered into polyamory, we discussed this mode of...

and for some reason i thought i would share hear with you guys that our baby was meant to be born today. My due date was Jan 14th. He was born and died on Jul 29th at 10.23pm at 16 weeks gastation due to an infection in my womb that brought on premature labour, we named him Samson. He was a...

I've been hear a while and haven't got round to it yet and so maybe it is about time. First off all I am an exceptionally lucky woman because I am surounded by 3 people that love me. I do not use the terms primary and secondary, nobody in my life is more important than the other. My longest...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rs7E8HSgQy4 it made the 3 or us laugh so thought id share :) Jools

I have always been openly Poly, My Mum and Step Dad know that i have other partners and so does Montianboy. Everyone in my life knows that I am poly I refuse to make it a secret or something taboo. I know that my Mum doesn't aprove of this lifestyle. It bothers her a lot and we end up often...

I read on another thread about DADT, and didn't want to hijack it. I am curious about this, because. for me, I want to know. I do ask lots of questions (mainly because I'm nosey), even if sometimes the answers make me react a certain way. I may feel insecure or jealous. I think that's ok because...

I was wondering if anyone knew anything about how possible it would be to adopt in future if you live in a poly family, this isn't something that im planning on doing right now, but it is something i would consider in the future and there seem to be little or no information out there. I am...

So i have a mini vent some threads ago about feeling insecure about R going off for the weekend with the other girlfriend who is not technically a girlfriend but is sorta in that role (complicated) i was feeling insecure, and very aware of my insecurity and i spent the weekend working on that...

I have been working very hard, within myself, and with R to move through the feelings of insecurity I have about him starting or having a relationship with another woman. I wanted to make sure that our own relationship felt more solid before there where others introduced to the dynamic of US...

is there any songs that make you think of the people you love/are in a relationship with? do you have special song that reminds you off all ur partners? or just diffrent songs for each, im just being nosey and looking for some good music :) Jools

establishing new relationships. UPDATE Do you think it is fair to take the time to establish a new relationship before bringing in any new people? If so how long do you think is a fair amount of time? I am feeling insecure, and a little jelous in my new relationship. Its not that he is dating...

This came up in another post but thought it best to start a new thread, i have never thought of my relationship in terms of structure, - until now when i read the post about structure and had a think about it, i have also never considered closing my relationship(s) so that it is polyfi...

We have been poly for a number of years, :) about 3, and we have been together for 6 as a couple... so... we are not new to this, During that time iv dated, 3 other men, none of them have been long term for various reasons, the main one being it i just never developed intense or strong...

I will try not to make this long, its just so nice to have found a bunch of like minded people and i would love your perspetives opinions on this, I have been with C for nearly 6 years, we have always talked about the possibility of being in an open relationship but for the first 3 years it...

Hi been looking for something like this for a while, fantastic to have found it at last :) anyway I'm Jools, 25 year old poly woman from Scotland, we have been poly for about 3 years and iv been in a relationship with my partner for nearly 6, im gonna try and get him to join too, i have lots...