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    can it be poly if you only have sex with one?

    Can a relation ship still be defined as poly (in your own definition) if you and your main partner decide to only have sex with just each other, but still date, flirt, and kind of mess around with other people (openly)? What are people's personal definition of different terms? REASON I ASK: My...
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    Check this out! :)

    Check out this polyamory sitcom that is only showed on YouTube. These people produce 2 shows a month. I am hooked. Let me know what you think!
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    ?pictures?

    Does anyone know why soem pictures will download on your poly profile and others won't. THey are in the same formate and the erro message won't come up it just says that some won't download (for to me what seems like no reason) I'm no good with computer stuff so if anyone has nay ideas please...
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    Sad to the point of physically sick

    Hi all... we are back from our amazing trip to the Grand Canyon... through a blizzard too. Check out my new pictures on my profile.. My hsband and I just got back from taking K (my girlfriend) to the airport to send her back to finland... since she left (2:00 yesterday) I have felt physically...
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    Thanks for just listening...

    Stressed. My grandpa is dying, my gf is leaving for Finland in 3 weeks, and in a few days my new bosses are going to be reviewing me at work. :eek: But next week my husband, gf and I are driving to the Grand Canyon. I get 2 weeks off work, and a night at a really nice hotel, just my husband and...
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    Commitment?!?

    I was wondering if anyone here is in fully commited relationships with their multiple families. I would love to hear stories about your fmailies, especially families that have children. I know I want children (a lot... my husband always jokes about having 12 {through adopting, birth, and foster}...
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    Just wondering...

    Now, before I start this post, I want to say that I know I've asked a lot of questions on this message board because I'm new, and if this bothers anyone (or if this question in particular bothers anyone), please let me know. I was just wondering how to refer to my relationships with my husband...
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    Cute Letter

    If you are in a commited Poly Relationship, and especially if you consider yourself a Poly family (with kids) than check out this printable (funny/joke) letter!! :D Dear (insert name here), Thank you for your interest in joining our polyamorous family. We're pleased to know that you find our...
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    My GF is leaving and I could use all of your excellent advice...

    My GF, Katja, has to go back to Finland at the end of this month. :( Her visa for studying at our local university runs out. She won't be able to return for at least 2 years, possibly longer. She keeps telling us she will definitely return to the U.S. and to us. My husband Nils wanted to have a...
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    What do you think?

    I found this awesome website from a polyamorous family that homeschool and run a business together: http://www.polyfamilies.com/index.html On this website, if you search around a lot, you'll see the woman who is writing it calling her partners Husband 1, Husband 2 and Wife. I was wondering...
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    Has anyone been like this?

    I am new to all this, so I don't know if anyone else feels this way, or if it is just me. A lot of you may know my story, as I have posted a few things here and there. I have recently gotten a girlfriend whom I love dearly. At the same time, I am married. What I was wondering was this: I know...
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    Has this happened to any of you?

    Do any of you have this type of situation? My girlfriend Katja deeply loves me. (She lives with us.) My husband Nils deeply loves me. Katja wants to be close to Nils and really wants to be friends with him. Nils says he loves her heart and soul, and that she is a good friend who could become...
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    What you think?

    My girlfriend, Katja, is a full lesbian and does not make deep loving relationships easily, since her parents are/were abusive to her. She keeps telling me that she only wants to be with me and my husband Nils, no one else, and that she would be honored to be a godmother. While part of me is...
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    What do you think?

    What do you think about having one of your partners (the one that is not the primary or the unicorn) be a godparent if/when you have children? I know it is a long way (about 4 yrs) off in my family, but children are already highly important to me (especially since I already had one son that I...
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    Just wondering?

    Really I am not a person for labels, ever, but I was wondering what the people here thought. This whole polyamory thing is new to me and therefore, extremely interesting. My girlfriend Katja lives with us. She I are very much in love. I am married. While my husband Nils says he loves Katja, and...
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    Explaining my new love who lives across the globe

    New development. I can't believe how happy I am. I told you all about our "friend" Katja from Finland my husband Nils and I met. Well, we have gotten so much closer. We now are calling each other "girlfriend," at least between the three of us. We have had multiple sexual experiences, but always...
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    NEVER thought this would happen in a Million Years!!

    New development... I can't believe how happy I am. I told you all about our friend Katja my husband Nils and I met from Finland. Well, we have gotten so much closer. We now are calling each other "girlfriend," at least between the three of us. We have had multiple sexual experiences, but...
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