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Life is better. Marriage counseling was great for getting communication started. I continue to work on my issues with the counselor. Additionally, life has taken an unexpected turn. Although my wife still feels poly, she has not been actively seeking a partner, as our relationship is more...

Thank you, Ceoli. That looks like a good resource to digest. LovingRadiance, good point! Just when I thought I was working on some of the "me" issues, you bring several concepts to light that I had been ignoring. What do I need to be happy in life? Why isn't this a question I've been asking...

Background: My wife told me that she was polyamorous and possibly needed to separate from me. I felt threatened, insecure, apparently all the normal things. I'm coming around to an acceptance that she can love multiple people. We still have a lot of ground work to do. We need to come up with...

Thank you everyone for your insights. It feels good to have gotten some of this off my chest and I'm glad I posted here. redpepper, your perspective seems so applicable to where we are right now. You're very right, and I plan to read through as many of the forums as I can. Ceoli, thank you...

Background: I have had a few romantic interests over the years. As a grade schooler, I fell for a girl that I only met three times. We never kissed, but we would run off and hide together, smiling, giggling, hugging, holding hands and laughing. I was terrified and looked forward to it at the...