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Cowpuncher you are entitled to your opinion and you can believe what you want but you don't understand the human mind very well. That being said let's agree to disagree and let groovy decide how she will handle her missteps.

A2poly I think you have misunderstood something because on both accounts you have misjudged. First I am a man so I never have to lie to or manipulate anyone. I am the most honest and straightforward person I know. Most of my family is the same way. I understand when people feel they need to use...

Naivety is not a bad quality until you get hurt :)

Actually the world and especially us humans being one big grey area is simply perception. It is how we want to see it because of our emotional desire to be different. However we are all the same. We all have the same basic needs for survival and we all feel the same basic emotions. Just because...

Iamlissa as I said I was not trying to be critical although your response is of course expected. Nobody would claim to be manipulative because in general it is thought to be an immoral thing by society. If society firmly believed that watching tv was morally wrong everyone would claim they never...

As you have laid out your lifestyle you will have many problems and probably will be at forums like this asking questions for years if not the rest of your life unless you change a few things. This lifestyle does not suit you from the analysis I can make if your personality based on what you...

I think what you are finding is that in many of these poly relationships as with a lot of things in life people are cool with what you are doing as long as they are getting something out of it. Your current bf and gf were cool with you and your husband swapping partners with them because they...

Beingrose I myself am also into psychology and knowing you are it both surprises me and doesn't surprise me you do not have the answer to this. It surprises me on a basic level because you seem blind to what is truly happening. On a deeper level it doesn't surprise me because your emotions are...

Iamlissa I really hope you inform us as to how this ends up because I am very curious. I have my own feelings of what you will do but will not state them here. I think the reason you listed yourself as single was a basic female human instinct. You selfishly wanted the most options for yourself...

I'm sorry cowpunch but the entire world revolves around human psychology every single second of every single day whether you acknowledge it or not. I understand the response you just made because I understand psychology. It is typical. You are male and that's why you feel you would be under...

There is a good reason why everyone in a quad says it's hard and why most end up failing. Almost all of them at least change and they will say it didn't fail but just changed. Sorry but that is a failure. If two couple end up anything other than still couples together then that is a failure. The...

You can figure this out using basic psychology. You have been with your bf much longer than you and your bf have been sexual with your gf. They want to have more sexual contact with each other because it is new and exciting. It is made very easy because you are working days and they both work...

Handsome poly gentleman in the western suburbs of Chicago. I am recently single and looking for a long term relationship with a fun, smart, out going, and open minded woman. Here to talk to and meet like minded people. Love to hear others opinions on this lifestyle and their successes. Feel free...