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The others are right,this IS an unhealthy relationship,and you need to do the best for you and cut it off. He needs time to comes to term with whatever is going on in his head,and being with someone else won't allow him to do that,no matter now 'nice' or 'good' you are. Time to take care of you xx

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It seems to me that B needs to work on his own issues, that aside from the poly stuff, there are other things going on-- fear of abandonment etc,, that maybe he needs to talk to someone other than you about. Something I have learnt to do is when my bf is with his ex-wife or ex-gf and their...

I'm sorry you're having such a rough time. My bf's last relationship ended because his mono gf could not get her head around the concept of being poly. She terrorized me (as his new gf) and his secondary, and in the end he walked away from her. Maybe you are fighting a losing battle. You both...

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I smiled when I read your post,I'm so glad things are working for you,Bekah and Kelly! :)

Magdlyn,can I ask how your friend got through the 'system' having 5 terminations without someone asking why or intervening? My bf's ex is seriously disturbed and threatened it with this one which upset me immensely being adopted and wanting to be a 'mother' myself..feel free to PM me :)

Most interesting! I have 'met' true addicts online,they hide behind their computers and rarely have a 'normal' relationship with a woman..they don't know how to! As far as the celebrities go,well,I never thought Tiger was an addict,more an habitual cheater who liked the attention and the 'ego'...

I've just sat down and written a blog on naigating the holidays,maybe I should take my own advice? lol Nevertheless although not 100% I'm alot happier than I was,thank you everyone! :)

I'm the girlfriend of a poly man who just had a baby with his ex 5 months ago, and truthfully, it has been very hard. You have to be strong and independent and make the most of what time you get with him. He will feel stressed and stretched, as he will undoubtedly be working, as well, and won't...

I've been trying to send you messages but I don't think you're getting them..*sigh* I'd love to be your FB friend,so send me a PM when you get a chance! Hope you had a wonderful birthday xx

I like this too RP..what is the name of the FB group? Me and my bf would both be interested in taking a look :)

I'm 40 as well and i really like the person I've become and the new experiences life throws at me. If anyone had told me 12 months ago I'd be in a relationship with a poly male,I would have laughed at them! ;)

If she really wants babies, and he can't give that to her, he needs to let her go. She may be willing to compromise on that now, but eventually it will come up again. I know this because I didn't meet my partner until I was 39, and he already had children. We thought about it and he decided no...

totally! I've heard of a number of women who've been able to conceive after this,maybe not this many. from what I understand multiple terminations increase cervical incompetency(the chance of not being able to carry to term) and in case of my bf ex she went into labour at 38 weeks.

If you organise a support network BEFORE you leave then no it won't be harder.. you're in a rough place right now but get yourself a good counsellor,lawyer,some close friends and somewhere to stay.. I'm in financial strife right now so I'm calling on all my friends to help me out with somewhere...

We had a good discussion about it last night and it seems that due to all his 'commitments' he isn't so flash hot on Christmas anyway,its primarily for the kids and I also encouraged him to catch up with his best mate whom he hardly sees. We agreed that although it would be 'nice' to catch up,we...

He told me they were planning a baby down the track but it happened alot faster than he anticipated because he felt that her history of 4 terminations would count against her...guess not huh?! ;) He shouldn't have ever told me that because that made me feel ill... and yes he's had to learn...

Thank you Mohegan,you are 100% correct,I am feeling alot better already and have arranged some activities with my friends over the holiday period and will catch up with the bf in January with a bottle of wine and some quality time :)