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That is good advice and I might just try that. At least he respected my feelings and the rule on lets stay our of each other's fights, which is a good start. Since he is the newcomer to the relationship and DH and I have been married for 12 years and are both set in our ways of dealing with...

Yes we are still very much in the make the rules process, but slowly but surely we are starting to get an understanding going. Yes I told BF that DH and I were arguing, he did not even ask what the fight was. He kept to that end of the rules very well. He just wanted me to cheer up and I just...

Thanks Big Guy. I didn't even tell him the topic of the fight, I just told him that we were fighting. One of the agreements we made getting into this was we must stay out of each other's fights. A fight between me and hubby is a fight between me and hubby, a fight between me and boyfriend is...

Oh no I didn't think that at all. In fact I appreciate the advice. That is why I came here. You are doing exactly what I need. This is all just so new to me, I thank you and everyone else who has given me some help on how to deal with all of this.

Yeah there is that and a lot of things that we need to have some sit downs about. Like I said we are all so very very new to this. I am very thankful for this forum and the people in it. I am going to need a lot of support.

Yeah that is how I should have dealt with it. He is also going through a lot right now and I guess I was overly worried about his feelings. Like I said we have so much to learn to make this all work out.

Yeah your right the little white lie was wrong. I just wasn't sure how to handle it at the moment. I was pissed at DH and BF was trying his hardest to make me smile. I just couldn't let him know I was not in the mood lol. We have so much to learn to make this all work out.

Yeah well BF wasn't here, he is a truck driver and called just to check in. He asked what was wrong and heard it in my voice. I told him, nothing DH and I are arguing and he spent the entire phone call trying to make me laugh. I wasn't really in the mood for that, so I lied and said yeah I am...

How do you deal when your mad at one and in the middle of a fight, and all the other wants to do is make you laugh and smile? I was in an argument with my husband, and the boyfriend did stay out of it, but he was trying to make me smile and laugh. I really just wanted to be mad for a time...

Thank you for your greetings. I have taken a lot of time to read various threads in this forum and have found a lot of the information very helpful. I have also gotten a lot of support from various posters and thank everyone for that.

Thank you. And yes I am glad I found this forum as well. When the guys decided that this is how should work out, I went seeking a good forum to get advice from people in a similar situation. So far I have received a lot of support here. Its taking time, but I am starting to come around.

I think that is my issue. See my marriage to my husband for the past 12 years has been wonderful. And then when the other guy came into the pic, the simple fact that they just agreed so easily, it is just hard to wrap my head around. I guess I am just going through a phase where I am...

If that happens I will. But at the current they are both so in love with me. They both stated that they want no one other than me and that is why they both made the deal to share. Maybe my problem is that I am still just trying to wrap my head around the fact that they both love me this...

Hello all I am LadyMoon and I am new here and to polyamory. It was kind of an accidental set up. An ex-boyfriend from way back in my past looked me up on Facebook and I accepted his friendship. I fully told my husband about all of this from the word go. In our chats catching up and walking...