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back it's been a while since I posted... The reason is, I'm excited to say, I'm pregnant! I'm only 6 weeks and I know it is too soon to tell the whole world, but each week that goes by I am telling a few more folks. Zadok is thrilled for me and very supportive, but also understandably...

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argh, my post got eaten.. will try to recreate RP- I like your style! I'm not going to bother lecturing him though, since I doubt it will do any good. He was clear from the start (had written "attached" in his profile) and will likely just look for someone else who is willing to cheat. I...

Because I'm an idiot?

Exactly exactly

Nope. And that is why I am hesitant about this whole thing. I asked him right off the bat if he was married, and he said yes. I asked him if his wife would be upset if she knew (he had had a FWB for a about a year, a couple years ago?) and he said yes, most likely. So he has cheated on...

So I had a lunch date and a "fixing my broken iphone screen" date this week, both were really fun even though the professor was still recovering from a recent illness. I realized that what I really want and need is intimacy. "D" aka Zadok, is very intimate and loves to talk, to share, to try...

Heh it is from the animated series Aeon Flux, it was originally shown on MTV ages ago. I have black hair and blue eyes like Aeon, and a similar Domme streak. (although she is an assassin, I draw the line there!!

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good points again thanks for the advice NY, I'm taking it. My date with the professor got cancelled because he became extremely sick this past week. We will probably meet up tomorrow or later in the week. As I read your post I realized that I also kind of feel like *I'm* leading him on in a...

welcome Zadok! Well to confuse things more, D/Dungeon is now Zadok :) I tried to figure out how to edit my previous posts but am unable to find the button to do it. At any rate, Zadok made an account and I'm thrilled. I know that he will not be as active here as I am, but if he wants to read...

better now Sigh I feel much calmer now and loving towards D. Last weekend was just so emotional, and I had so little energy to give. I keep reading these forums and learning more. I think D definitely has a fear of abandonment, hence his need for reassurance before and after my meeting with...

Yeah I think you are right in that it's coming from a place of reactivity. You hit the nail on the head NY :) I do that a lot. I don't know if I *can* just enjoy the dating... I think that often I am just too anxious about "where is this going" and "am I going to end up hurt/frustrated?". I...

I've been talking to a man I met online (who also as it turns out works for the same university that I do and has an office a few buildings away from me). I was very leery at first mostly because of our work proximity, but after we met I was reassured, since it turns out we've both worked here...

Thanks Ray! In my intro I had said that Dungeon (now to be called "D"- sounds less melodramatic and easier to type...) was my primary. Now I'm realizing that he's not, simply because it seems to me from reading on here that a primary is sort of more of a committed relationship. Not to split...

New here, have really gotten a lot out of reading the blogs and other threads. Just wanted to get some stuff off my chest, I suppose. I'm realizing especially after reading some of what Mono has written, my partner D is more mono than I thought. I myself don't know whether I am truly poly or...

Hm, first of all I'd like to think of a better name for Dungeon, it sounds too negative and serious, and he's not at all like that! Also I'd like to update more about my situation, relationships, etc. I've been reading a lot of the threads. Should I just keep going in this thread or I suppose...

woo thanks for the warm welcomes Yes I love Aeon Flux too, I guess it shows! I could not bring myself to see the movie, felt it would be a letdown...

Hi I'm Aeon! For as long as I can remember I have felt that polyamory just makes sense on practical and biological level. Due to lots of social conditioning, however, I was never able to conceive to trying it until recently. I was in a mono relationship for 11 years, married for 6. The...