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First time responding to a post on here, as I am new to this as well, but definitely not new to the relationship "game". Listen to the others on here. Your BF may be truly poly, but he's definitely not treating you with respect. The one thing I've come to realize is that the incredible beauty of...

Thanks to all who have been trying to help. So, the BF and I had a long, heart-to-heart about this, where I finally asked point-blank what the real issue is/was. He answered honestly, we argued, cried, and I have come to a better understanding of who he is, us, and how to communicate in...

Thanks for all the replies so far. I'll try and address the questions that were raised. First, I am not asking him to wear a ring now. We were discussing it in future terms. Secondly, he's the romantic mushy one, not I. He was the first to say, "I love you" (and left me totally gob smacked...

GalaGirl - the three month thing doesn't bother me, as I dated my husband for three months before I married him (and I dated my ex for seven before being married for three -that's years), but the words don't seem to match the actions. And, the BF tells me all the time i'm more than a FWB, but it...

Of course -what is it?

Hi - I'm new to the forum, and have posted my intro on the Intro forum. Situation is this: I've been with the BF for about three months now, and we have made a verbal commitment to each other (I am married to Mr. Xcountrygirl and have been for eleven years). The boyfriend, JF, has told me he...

Thank you both for the welcome. I have so many questions that I want to ask, but I'm wading through the mountains of information on here, first. JaneQ, to answer your question about the discomfort I feel about the fact that my BF has gone and participated in kink parties and other group sex...

Hi all, I've been lurking and reading for some time now, and thought it was time for an introduction. I'm new to poly. I have always known that I'm not cut out for the traditional one man -one woman til death do us part model, and have been known to swear, in my younger days, that I would...