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We've been together 8 1/2 years, poly about a year and a half, with my currently boyfriend about 6 months. A lot of his emotion may come from this being my first real emotionally involved relationship outside of him. I get that, but it doesn't change the problem. I AM allowed sex with the...

He does see the discrepancy, just admits that regardless of that it still bothers him. Its good to know I'm not nuts, I just cannot see myself turning my relationship with my boyfriend into something unnatural.

Ok so this is about some disconnects I've been having with my primary. So he's ok with me having casual sex without attachment if and when I desire it. He's ok with me developing an emotional attachment with someone (i.e. my current boyfriend). But then we hit this wall where he's been...

Wow you hit that one on the money. Maybe I should just try to focus more on that aspect of it. We created a mutual pace between us overtime so I more or less forgot the time when I was going 2 steps ahead. As hard as it is for me to accept, I know you're probably right. There are some real...

J is as committed to poly as I am. He fully supports and understands my interest in developing additional relationships. The existing issues in our relationship are issues that have risen and fallen multiple times throughout our life together, currently the lack of passion is there again however...

Its not, but then again almost all of poly is fairly new for us, by no means did we look for what we have but thats a bit of the beauty of it. J and I have discussed this in depth. Our passion has its ebbs and flows and when we discussed allowing poly in our life it came as no surprise as I...

A and J met through my budding interest in M. They hit it off from the start which we were all pleased with but everyone was certainly quite wary of the quad thing beginning to happen especially since we're all fairly new to this. In no way would I want J to feel pressured into making their...

I really hope so. Although I think their relationship is going along fine if it did end shes got a very good head on her shoulders and I don't think she'd want to do that to M or myself, as hard as it might be for her.

The basics- Myself (W) and my long-term partner (J) have been together in a mono way for about 7 years, about 1.5yrs ago we decided to go open and now love it and will never go back. The couple we have begun seeing are essentially in the same boat, long term mostly mono, went poly, love it...

I thought I might come and say hi here as a first course of action. I go by the name Meg and I come out of lovely Melbourne, Australia. Myself and my primary have been slowing ramping up our poly life over the course of about a year now. We were monogamous for about 7 years before that but...