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I like that ring, we have discussed the Claddagh with a stone. one color for my primary and his secondary and a different color for me and my secondary. Just have not found the right ones yet, still looking.

We are also considering that as well. Just not a whole lot of thought has gone into what we would get and were we would put it.

Tim, Thank you, I have just looked at that website. It does have some beautiful pieces. Mellsey

Mark1npt, We are leaning more towards the distinctly matching bands that represent polyamory and our love for one another. We have not discussed the ceremony yet, it will just be a private commitment ceremony. I know we can not do anything legal, which is not fair, but is life.

We really have not talked about what type of ceremony we will do, but yes it would be a group marriage and yes it would replace our mono wedding rings. That is one thing all four of us have agreed upon. When and what we will do is still undesided. I have been looking at the celtic rings and...

Hello, my poly family are looking for "wedding" commitment rings. Does anyone have any idea or a design that would fit our poly life. Being two couples we already have one set of rings, but would like to replace them with one for all four of us that symbolizes our connection and commitments.

SeventhCrow, That would be me. Ember, Welcome. I am in the same situation as you. I have been married 18 years and until recently have been mono. My husband and I were introduced to our couple through a mutual friend. After getting to know them a little we started discussing swinging...

This is new for me too, never been on anytype of forum before. All of this is new. The best advice I can give you is don't hold back any feelings and comunicate with each and everyone of your poly family. Our quad has been through some pretty rough times, and most of the time it was one of us...

I'm glad that you got this worked out. You are so right, polyamory is not easy. Just when you think everything is going great, something always comes up. But at the same time, it is well worth all the hard times you have to go through to have the feeling of completeness you get when you are with...

Lemondrop, welcome to the forum, it has really helped me out on a few things. It is really nice to have others you can talk to about our lifestyle. This is all fairly new to my husband and I, but am very glad it has come about. Our quad (mfmf) has been through some rough times just in a short...

Lemondrop, The first and foremost thing all four of you need to do is to sit down and discuss what is bothering you. I have been there. When our quad started, we had no idea what we were in store for. We have spent a lot of time talking and getting through situations just like this. Be honest...

Alhena, Thanks for your response. I don't care who knows that I love two guys, and that one is married to another person. I want to tell everyone. It is society who frowns on us. I do not know how my boss will take it. I have to work for this guy for a living. He is about my age and owns his...

I have a question for anyone who can help. History first-- I'm in a quad, MFMF, two married couples together with each other in a poly relationship. This is all new to all of us. Question-- How do you deal with society and people you have daily interactions with? Example: my boss has noticed...

Every weekend my husband and I get together with our poly couple. Now keep in mind both couples have two children each, so there is a total of 8 of us, and our children do not know our lifestyle, so any affection or togetherness is hiden. We have made it a rule that there is no "intimacy"...

I never thought it would happen to us. It did start out as swinging, but even before things got started it got started. It has pretty much been like the old saying "right place, right time, with the right people". Don't give up...

Bill, first off it is more emotional than sexual and is felt by all parties. Being opened and honest with whom ever you are with is the key factor. The relationship with my husband and I's other couple started out as friends and has grown to be a wonderful relationship between us all. Hang in...

I can see where you are coming from. I have been married 18 years and never dreamed I would allow any such thing happen in our marriage. It was all in timing. The two of us finding the perfect couple we both connected with. Take your time, and the most important aspect of this whole thing is...

Hello, I am a wife of 18 years and recently have met a couple who we (my husband and I) connected with immediatley. He with her and me with him. The connection is amazing. We have grown together and been through so much in the past few months that we all thought we were alone. After...