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One of the issues we discussed also is that he thinks I need to figure out if poly is really right for me. So I've been mulling that over. I think I've decided that choosing between poly / mono for me is like asking a bisexual person to choose between men and women. Can't I be open to both...

Yeah, and I get that. Still kinda sucks though. :(

Thanks for the feedback everyone. It's getting much easier to deal with these emotions as time passes. The more I process it the more I come to the conclusion that I can accept the level of time and commitment that he is offering, but I really didn't appreciate the way he presented the...

Right, and neither of us are calling it that. We're not really calling it secondary either. We're not really calling it anything. It's a little wishy washy which I think is both good and bad. I agree with your definition of co-primary and agree that that's not what we have. I just had hopes...

I don't think he meant it as patronizing. My guess is he based it gauging how I act toward him and feeling that I want more time from him than I get, which admittedly I kind of do. I think I did not make myself clear... he meant that our secondary relationship would make more sense if I had a...

Hi all. My emotions are seriously fucking with me tonight and although I should be sleeping and getting ready for a hellish week at work ahead, I'm here because all I can do is think and worry about conversation I had with my boyfriend today. This is my first poly relationship, and if I'm...

Hello everyone. This is my first post. Glad to be here, and looking forward to learning more. So here goes: poly has never been a new concept to me as I've run with a crowd where polyamory is very common since I was pretty young. I've always been around it. However I was also always shy...