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    Polyamory and soulmates

    I've heard many people on this site say that they were able to convince their partners to try polyamory, or help steer them into that direction, but of course this is not going to work on all cases. I'm giving up hope that my wife will agree to try polyamory. People change, relationships...
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    In mono marriage, realizing I'm poly

    thinking about new beginnings Hello again. I posted here about 6 months ago, saying I'm in a mono marriage but realizing that I'm poly. Wanted to update y'all and maybe get some input from people who have been down this path. So I've finally accepted that my partner is never going to agree...
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    how often do you see your secondary partners?

    Thanks for the replies so far, it's great to hear other's perspectives. FoxFlame, Idealist, good points, very true that the length of the relationship and geographic location, work schedules, etc. factor into all this quite heavily.
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    how often do you see your secondary partners?

    I was talking to a friend about polyamory and he said "well it's not really a girlfriend if you only see her once a week" and I certainly don't agree with that, but I do think he has a point that in the mono world, girlfriend/boyfriend is someone you're seeing several times a week. Are their...
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    In mono marriage, realizing I'm poly

    from OP Thanks for the comments and replies. GroundedSpirit, I agree with you that using "terms that are too broad" can confuse things even more. I've definitely made that mistake in the past. I guess reading and posting on this board is good practice at being more specific. :) YGirl, it's...
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    In mono marriage, realizing I'm poly

    Hi, everyone. My dilemma seems common, but I couldn't find any similar threads. I go back and forth between thinking I should stay committed to my monogamous marriage (no children involved), to thinking it's time to take the plunge into being poly. My wife is not willing (or able?) to open...
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