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Thanks. :) Very much so. I am not even sure how much I would actively use such freedom, but it seems to make sense to have it. (And I probably would always be pleasantly surprised I had a reason to use it.) It's really interesting for me. I have never felt like I have much fit in or fit...

I'm very much hoping something will grow between us, so I'm glad that it may not be my imagination. :) And I am in no hurry. Just trying to find a happy balance between having hope while enjoying the friendship and trying not to overthink things or otherwise be stupid. I'm not good at letting...

Well. I'm still lurking about here, quite happily, and I thought I'd stop to give an update. In some ways not much changed. In others... well, there's an apocryphal saying/curse, "May you lead an interesting life." Mainly, if anyone has an advice or opinions on what has happened, I'd love to...

If something happens worth updating, I will certainly do so. This past weekend was slow and our group ended up not getting together. (Bad weather, sick kids, etc.) He and I did spend four hours online Saturday night/Sunday morning, exploring a new game and chatting. Any serious conversation...

It certainly makes sense in that situation and it's awesome that it ultimately ended up working out well for everyone. In this potential situation, while I do know his partner as a member of our group, she is not as active a participant so I haven't seen her all that much nor do I know her that...

While I am certainly no expert and am new to poly myself, YouAreHere's post was much in line with what I would say. Keep communicating with your girlfriend, extensively. If you two have had previous breakups, it would seem to be a valuable and needed relationship tool anyway. No one deserves...

Thanks for the replies! I wanted to respond to a few quotes. That's understandable and something I could certainly work with as long as the possibility of growth was present. My problem would be if it were a set "inferior" role. (Next quote is in regards to "hot bi babes.") That's...

Hi, Kevin. Thanks for both the welcome and the reply. :) I have read those sections of Veaux's site, which is where I think my possible fears first solidified, though I imagine that should not be taken to be as dire as it sounds. And yes, hopefully there will be a talk soonish, especially...

Hello. I am new to poly, at least on a personal scale, and am seeking any feedback or advice as I contemplate a possibly poly relationship. To briefly recap salient parts of my intro, I am female, single, and in my early 40's. Poly isn't a new idea to me and one I've always thought...

Greetings! It seems to be the polite thing to introduce oneself and so here I am. I am a female in her early 40's who is currently single and poly-curious. The idea of poly is not new to me as I have poly friends and have long thought it a good idea intellectually, ever since I first started...