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  1. gamerprincess

    Ventura County - Oxnard

    Hello from Oxnard as well! I haven't been on here in a long time, been busy with life and all... but if you're looking for friends in the area, my bf and I would love to meet you both. We're a bit older.. I'm 31, he's 28. After going back and forth for a few years on poly, I think we're more...
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    Are our expectations too high?

    We are intent on it, because it's what we both ultimately want together. It has happened for some people, so I'm not giving up hope yet, neither is he. I was sharing some of the replies with him last night including yours and we wound up talking about how not easy this is to find someone to date...
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    Are our expectations too high?

    Defintiely nothing wrong with casual relationships so soon after a breakup, been there myself and most of us have if not all of us. When she asked the bare back question, I think my jaw dropped. Not literally, but I know my eyes got big and he raised and eyebrow. I took a sip of my drink and...
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    Are our expectations too high?

    Her dishonesty was something we were turned off by; honesty is very important to us. it was one of many things we were turned off by. I almost felt she was leading us on TBH. as far as dealing with the STD testing for only fluid bonding relationships.. i do not agree if that's what she's...
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    Are our expectations too high?

    I say promiscuous, because she did mention that she doesn't always practice safe sex with one of the couples she is seeing. She has been seeing them since pretty much right after the breakup, because he has a vasectomy. The whole thing came up after we brought up the idea of maybe taking it to...
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    Are our expectations too high?

    Him and I met through a mutual friend and we were inseparable from the first day we met. We totally appreciate one another, but we've known for a long time that we really want to add to our relationship with another woman. At one point we toyed around with the idea of other configurations but...
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    Are our expectations too high?

    thanks for the list suggestion! We'll sit down tonight and work on it :) The poly-fi broads definitely aren't falling off the tree here.. In fact those trees are bare here if you ask me. I don't think we were intentionally trying to sound desperate; more just wanting to get it out there on...
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    Are our expectations too high?

    I've only had 2 serious relationships.. 1 was my ex whom I married and divorced years later.. and then J who I have been with for 6 years. Both relationships did move incredibly fast, so I think that I just don't know how to date slow *sigh* When I was single between my ex and J, for about a...
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    Are our expectations too high?

    Sorry if this is a bit long.. Almost 2 months ago we met someone who we thought would be a good match for us. It seemed we had similar goals, we had a couple of dates and thought things were going well. Between our dates, we talked and texted each other a lot. None of us had ever been in a...
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    the story of a secondary

    All of you seem to understand one another very well and "get" one another separately and together. I think that among other things is what makes it work so well for all of you. I've always said that we should never regret mistakes we make as we learn valuable lessons that enable us to grow...
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    A tough road to hoe

    I don't really have much advice, since J and I are just starting our first real poly relationship..a triad and have no experience in a quad.. But I wish you all the best of luck in working it out, if Stew really does want this. Sounds like he is just having a lot of jealousy issues that he needs...
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    It's been a while since I've been here, but I'm back

    I wasn't here very long before things got crazy in life, but here I am again! I got laid off in May.. We moved shortly after that to a guest house to save money and now I'm finally going back to doing something I love and have a passion for. After our previous attempt to meet someone.. or for...
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    Looking for poly friends in Ventura Co./So Cal

    Yeah, it definitely is beautiful here. Having grown up and lived in different parts of the country (Northeast, FL and now CA), I totally appreciate what I have here and where I live, even if it's ridiculously expensive compared to everywhere else in the country. Speaking of the Strawberry...
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    So Blessed, but Scared Too!

    Welcome, Hopeful! I'm quite the geek as well and though I love gaming, I've never tried WoW because I know I would get hooked really fast. That game consumes people's lives from what I hear. Anyhow, congrats on getting to that happy place with hubby and best of luck with B!! Hopefully he is...
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    Somegeezer's Blog Of Life

    So sorry to hear this.. Unfortunately, Child Protective Services here in the US isn't any better. I have a good friend who is a great mother, who is dealing with something similar only she had her child taken away and is now fighting to get him back. Hopefully all works out anc Cherry won't be...
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    Looking for poly friends in Ventura Co./So Cal

    In realized I didn't respond to this part, sorry!! I've lived out here for 6 years but have been in Cali for 12 years now. I love it here and would have a hard time moving somewhere else, but we've considered it. In Iraq right now, huh? I cannot begin to imagine how hard it is to be there...
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    Looking for poly friends in Ventura Co./So Cal

    Hah!!! I know exactly where you are from! So close to us. I certainly hope we find good peeps.. Gonna keep looking and spreading the word :)
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    Gamerprincess's Journey

    It's been a few days since I wrote, but I thought I'd give an update! J is still talking to the one he met on OKC. I've tried to not be too intrusive, as it was bugging him in the past about my incessant questioning, so I've just let him tell me about her on his own. From what I hear, she seems...
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    Looking for poly friends in Ventura Co./So Cal

    My boyfriend and I would love to meet like minded poly individuals in our area for friendship, networking and meetups. The nearest poly meetup groups are almost an hour away when you figure in Los Angeles traffic. We can't find any local groups in our area, and when posting on Craigslist for...
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    Gamerprincess's Journey

    Hah! So, the girl I mentioned in my last post doesn't have the balls to write me back to decline my apology...instead, she goes straight to him and says that she couldn't believe I had the nerve to write her and she will never apologize to me for what she said in the past and she still feels all...
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