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I'm not sure how viable this is depending on your area, but perhaps a poly support group? Seeing/hearing others going through the same emotions, thoughts, and lessons may help him.

If someone breaks the rules of monogamy can they be trusted with the higher and far more complex ones of a poly relationship?

Please consider/prepare for the possibility of Post Birth Depression, it is a common occurrence in mothers.

Why not talk to the wife?

Thank you all I'm learning and growing as a person. I don't know what is coming but my fiancee and I's level of communication has grown so much since investigating this curiosity.

I would be ok with that, though I don't know if she would be ok if the situation was switched around.

I can relate to the original post. In my limited research into poly it requires a commitment to self and loved ones to face every aspect of yourself especially the things you would like to hide from the light of day. If you can't atleast try things won't work. It gives me perspective and I'm...

Candied, I'm not sure I know what I want. Trying to formulate what is and is not reasonable. A woman with both of us(which is starting to sound unreasonable), but it isn't fair to expect her to just be with us... though the idea doesn't sound bad either. Above all else I do not want to ruin my...

Theory and practice are far often not the same thing. Would like to throw some thoughts out that I may need a reality check/tuning on. Bunches of questions thrown in randomly over next few weeks. 'So and so comes first' I'm starting to skim through hierarchy and primary/secondary. My 'original...

I think the question (of the board members) should be 'if so how' and not 'Should I'. Society gives you tons of shoulds, if you listened to them you wouldn't be here or ever had a bi experience. Self-Help teaches Shoulds also set unrealistic expectations and insure unhappiness if things 'aren't...

Touching back on the testosterone, he may not feel any different, but did you when he was on replacement? The doctor put my dad on an anti- depressant, and he claimed he felt no different, but my mother loudly proclaimed it made her feel better. You mentioned injury and surgery. Pain...

First I am happy to find such a mature place to talk about poly and related things. Just a little browsing has taught me much. 30s male, engaged to an early 40s woman. My 2nd relationship. The love is strong even after the nre passed. I was a virgin before we met a year ago.Poly or not I know...