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Hi Inifinity, 1. I have been trying to avoid character judgments because I know this topic is going to be emotional and probably biased because if how upset I have been, despite my efforts to the contrary (I am so sorry about that, too), but he feels and I agree that there are reasons in her...

Wow, thank you for the feedback, everyone! I will try to get to everyone's points and questions, so please bear with me. Decision making depends on who it effects. My husband and I are legally married and have been together for coming up on 15 years while our partner has been with us for...

Hi GreenAcres, I just saw your second post. We didn't ask for time to wait, we already knew how we felt about her expectation. She said she didn't want to talk about it again until she brought it up, at some undetermined time in the new year. What feels like the worst breach of trust is that...

Hi GreenAcres, We have no problem with her having kids! We know this is something that she wants very dearly, but we are not in a place where we are ready to have kids in our lives, and this is a conversation that we had with her after the first round of drama last October. We don't want her...

I am brand new to the forum, but I am finally seeking out some advice on the encouragement of a good friend whose judgement I trust. Please bear with me because the context for my problem is a little convoluted. 3.5 years ago my husband and I became polyfi with a woman who was our very good...