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Kevin, thank you for the links, and I have read the book and it was very helpful to me. We have been to counselling, but I was left still with strong feelings for the other, which did not go when I tried to ignore it and ended the relationship. So reading about people who love more than one...

Thanks again, you bring up some very good points. I do think it is a bit harsh that you assume I have a lack of understanding that other people have a right to their own judgement and decisions. I do totally agree that people do, but struggle with the strong feelings that come up in me, and take...

Kevin, thank you< I will have a look at the articles. And I am very aware the issues need to be addressed, that is partly why I joined this forum. I would be interested in a poly friendly counsellor, thank you. Regarding my jealousy and the NRE, I have read about this (great book by Dutch...

Oh my, you are so right! Goodness, I think I really needed to hear that. I have felt very bad about the cheating, and you are making it very clear why. And indeed there are many issues to be resolved with my husband, if they can....he's now encouraging me to keep going with BF! God what a mess...

Hello, I'm a newbie to all of this, though have researched it a lot. Let me introduce myself, and explain the reason for my interest. I am a 45 year old woman, married, and have been in a monogamous relationship for 18 years with my husband. However, nearly 2 years ago, I fell massively in...