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I hate it too. I hate that it has to be so negative. I hate that the idea of wanting to share your love and relationship with a third, that doting on someone, that spoiling someone the way you spoil one another has to be so negative. I also hate that hoping she will love you both has to be...

So our first attempt at developing a polyrelationship/triad has come to a pause or a hiatus. :( Our "girlfriend" has told us that she just can't give us what we're looking for right now. (Not that we're even 100% sure what that is...) but she thinks we are awesome and wants to make sure we keep...

When it was all discussed before, she simply said she was having fun and wants to see where it goes. I know that it is time for a discussion again, we are new to this and sort of fell into this situation that seems to be working aside from my insecurities. But that's why I'm here. Trying to...

To be fair, he wants it to be as equal/balanced as possible. We know that each of our relationships with her are and will be different. They were friends first, and she and I have been getting to know each other and I'm both excited and frightened by NRE. When the 3 of us are together, it all...

My husband and I have been giving it a go with one of his female coworkers for about 2 months now. I'm crazy about her, and I want this so badly, but at the same time I get such horrible anxiety about certain things. I'm so paranoid about them going behind my back and developing a relationship...

I do. :) He is really wonderful. :D

Thank you! It is all very new and has been a little hard for me to figure out. It is new for all of us, so we are still working on how and when to express ourselves appropriately and how to receive each others emotions without becoming aggressive or defensive. My husband is definitely the anchor...

Very cool. we have 4 boys between us girls, so we'll see if ever get to cohabitation.

What do you use the whiteboard for?

Agreed. It is definitely hard, but worth it. My husband bought a journal for me and our girlfriend to exchange and communicate our feelings when we aren't together.

To me, the feelings seem irrational, because they are unfounded. Neither of them have given me any reason to doubt them or to feel jealous. And how I was dealing with the emotions was irrational and I was feeling crazy because of that. I have talked out all of my emotions with them and felt very...

My name is Cheyenne, and I have joined the forum because my husband and I recently begun exploring polyamory. I have always been open to the idea of sharing my relationship with another woman. For about two months now, we have been exploring things with a female friend of his from work. I...