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I'd also like to mention something about the sex: A lot of people on here I have read started out similiarly to myself in allowing a spouse to sleep with someone else, with an emotional connection coming out unexpectedly. I won't speak for everyone, but I know that while I didn't expect...

@Carma: "It is the circumstances of my relationship with Butch that are also so attractive. Ah, yes -- the lack of promises, expectations and demands, that is exhilarating!" I understand this. However, as being the mono member of the relationship I feel cheated. How fair is it that I get to...

A little piece I forgot to add: one of the worst parts of this deal with my wife's boyfriend and her not being "in love" with me is that is absolutely has caused me to love my wife less. I could handle the idea of her loving others, but being more "in love" with others, well that doesn't fly...

Wow guys, I didn't expect to hear from so many of you. I really appreciate it and apologize that I cannot reply to every one of you individually. I'd like to clear a few things up: It's not possible at this point to have Steve move out. He's in a lease with us for about a year. I...

I guess that's a large part of it. I don't want a new normal, I want my wife back. A few months back, our relationship was as good as it had ever been. I'll be the first to admit that I don't have all of the excitement in our relationship we once had. We have a kid that has definately gotten in...

Hey guys, new to the forum here. I've been with my wife for about 7 years. I'm in my early 30s. She's in her mid 20s. About 4 months ago, she asked for my permission to sleep with a mutual friend. We both expected this to be a "friends with benefits" situation. She has since fallen in love...