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    Talk to Me About Overnights

    Overnight was Thursday. I believe that the LDR issue is what contributed to the drop I did feel. I left him on Friday morning and felt wonderful. We had a great night and morning, but I realized yesterday morning that I had really missed seeing him every week. I really do not want to go...
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    Is it truly poly if...

    I think that last sentence is quite harsh, and at first, I just started replying based on my reaction to that sentence. I will come back to that because I think it needs to be addressed. After I started to reply to that last sentence, I went back and reread, and I saw the former paragraph. I...
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    Talk to Me About Overnights

    Well, I'll be sure to let you know how it goes. At this point, I'm just excited to see him and start working out our new "normal."
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    Talk to Me About Overnights

    After our former date days, I typically needed a day or so of space to get back into a normal with my husband. Some weeks, it was harder than others, depending on what was going on that week, and our "goodbye" when he moved was rough, for me, emotionally. So, I'm slightly concerned about how I...
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    Talk to Me About Overnights

    I am still relatively new to all of this. I am happy and settled with my current relationships, but overnights haven't happened yet. Next week will be my first, yay! A friend of mine who is poly suggested that I be prepared for an emotional drop afterwards. So, I wanted to hear from others, as...
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    Is it truly poly if...

    Your poly sounds a lot like my poly, and I say "poly," not "open relationship," because I am dating and developing relationships and emotions with other people, not just having casual encounters with people. I am married, with 4 kids. My family comes before my other partners, regardless of how...
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    My story, or whatever you want to call it.

    My How Things Change I haven't been here in months, but since then, things have changed, drastically. The husband and I spent a good portion of the late summer exploring what poly meant for us, and I'm happy with where we have landed. The initial LDR I was in fizzed out fairly quickly, after I...
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    My story, or whatever you want to call it.

    Mcal8671, I think. Something like that. I met Him (other partner) online over a month ago. We talk daily via phone or text. Yes, we plan to meet in what will hopefully be the near future.
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    My story, or whatever you want to call it.

    My husband had been hanging around here. So, I figured I'd quit being a lurking creep. I have been married for 10 years. I was 19 and engaged when I first seriously considered taking a secondary partner, and though it never went beyond him joining us in the bedroom, it was a desire I haven't...
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