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I tried that much, and expressing that it's really not the direction I wanted to move in or anything we discussed before, and that I'm struggling to process it. However, that's about as far as it went. My male partner disagrees and feels the other female in the situation just needs more time...

Not so much permission as clarification so that I can spend some time thinking and deciding what I am going to do moving forward. With me just having finished school and started a new job I really dont have the energy to be pursuing other things and put energy into reestablishing the current...

I think it is definitely getting to that point. It's hard because there are other things that are good and the kids and families are so intertwined at this point. I think I would be okay if I got confirmation that it's 100% a V and I could start pursuing other relationships as well instead of...

He and I had one, she and I had one, the two of them were before that...nothing with everyone.

Good point, but can't a date night be a good way to boost connection and communication, especially if one has not been had for more than six months? I suppose I could switch my request from nice aniversary to time alone, all three of us, with out the kids and the underlying need/desire would be...

reply to Nycindie The 'unicorn in the box' comment was referring to the first year where things like who goes out in public together and when and when and how are families introduced was being worked out. There was definitely some BS and shitty treatment leading to hurt feelings...Prabably on...

reply to AJM Yes between me and her. She had some medical problems (endometriosis) and pulled away physically and emotionally from both of us. She ended up getting a hysterectomy (after which I was the one to take car of her through her recovery period) about a year ago and has experienced some...

Loaded subjects As LizziE pointed out it has gotten to be a topic of frustration, for me personally, because of bringing it up multiple times in the past and them not following through. Hence my thinking that if I booked a room or something and put the details in a card they would be less able...

reply to MightyMax Ni I have one from a previous relationship and they have three together.

Hello everyone. I have been a lurker on here on and off for the last year or so and just reading all the advice and support has been so valuable as I navigate my own journey. Long story short I have been in a closed triad four almost 5 years...although it's looking more like a V for the last...