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I now live with R and H who are married. We've been in this little relationship dynamic for two years now, but only moved in together for a few months. I moved to them. R is my boyfriend. When R, H and I go anywhere together, H doesn't talk. H becomes mute, H looks at her phone, H won't...

I'm 33, R will be 29 in two days, H is 27. I am moving into my own apartment, I won't be moving in with them for the next year. I have a lot of reasons to move. I need to be in a place to go to school, and I have no support system here. I've only lived here a year. Okay so I get the point...

How do you be the helpful poly informative? How do I educate someone without coming off as bossy or the know it all. Basically I'm moving to be closer to R and H, they are married. I don't think either one of them have read much about being poly. H seems to be in some kind of culture shock...

When it comes to kids, I really think people need to respect whoever is in the home taking care of the kids wishes. Usually this is mom, but sometimes it's dad. I had/have a real problem with my parents over ruling my rules with the kids. So I always used to tell them, "Mom's the boss!" I...

I agree with WhatHappened, I have this as I lovingly refer to as a man whorish friend. He always thought women were so silly having feelings for him when he explicitly said not to. Until he fell in love with a woman himself. I like to look at intent, what was your husbands intent? I'm sure...

Thank you this sounds like good advice. I'm just not good about being assertive. I think it's the fact that I feel like they are making future plans to accommodate me, and some guilt about hey guys, I have no idea what I want or can do. Your right the type of pressure makes me feel emotional...

Actually living a poly life style is new to me. I've known about it and wondered about it for a long time. In the last year the romantic relationship with my now ex husband ended. He was very controlling and jealous, even jealous of me reading a book. I've had a lot of medical problems in...