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My boyfriend and I started out polyamorous and have been for 4 years. He always said "If you ever want to be monogamous, we can do that." Recently, I said "Let's be monogamous for a while, I'm having trouble dealing with my jealousy." Which began a huge argument. The problem is, he has...

Thanks, everyone! Thanks, stitch and sunnydee. That's a good idea. I'll try that next week if I get the chance. Michael completely blew me off Friday without a word. :mad: At least he offered a (belated) apology.

So telling Michael I have a boyfriend was easy after he told me he has a girlfriend. :confused: That was unexpected. I ended up giving him advice because she isn't talking to him. I had a little devil on my shoulder whispering plans of sabotage, but that's not me, so I helped him out. I assume...

I'm so happy I could help *tear*. I just joined this forum but oh god I wish I would have had it three years ago when I had just started out in an open relationship. Please please ask anything and I'm sure we'll all do our best to support you!

Have fun! It sounds like everyone may have some nervousness in such a situation. Good for you for discussing all of your feelings with C. I admit that I often feel like my boyfriend's prospects are competition to me. It sounds like you took your fear and explored it and now understand it. You...

You're very brave! First off, I applaud you for not running for it right away. I have experienced that from the other side and it sucks. It takes courage to come out as a poly. It is also brave for you to try to make it work. I admit, it is emotionally scary. Keep an open line of...

A Slight Development... I'm sorry. I should have been more specific; I do live with my beau. Sunnydee, I like your idea of going on a date first. However, I can just tell that this guy likes me a lot and seems to be more of an emotional type, more a beta male than an alpha male, so I don't...

Thank you Thanks for the suggestions so far. I'll try to explore the site and see what I can find. Honestly it's just so nice to be able to express my situation and not be discriminated against and hated on. Nobody I know is like me. My friends try, but they don't understand. I am glad to join...

First you should know that I prefer to have one or two other guys to sleep with fairly regularly, so I like to have a friendly relationship with them. I'm not in it to love these guys, and don't want them to love me. So, there's a guy I'm interested in. I know he likes me. He doesn't know I'm...